“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Overweight girls that lose substantial weight

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I don't know why, maybe I'm shallow? It sucks honestly but, I've noticed that when I discover a girl used to be really heavyset and has lost a big chunk of it I instantly lose physical attraction.

It's like a switch in my head goes off and I only see them as "fat" even if they're now in shape/fit.

I think part of is stems from the fact that they most likely have stretch marks in various parts of their body and I'm not a fan of that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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tryst type said:
I don't know why, maybe I'm shallow? It sucks honestly but, I've noticed that when I discover a girl used to be really heavyset and has lost a big chunk of it I instantly lose physical attraction.

It's like a switch in my head goes off and I only see them as "fat" even if they're now in shape/fit.

I think part of is stems from the fact that they most likely have stretch marks in various parts of their body and I'm not a fan of that.
And they will most likely go back to being fat at some point. Usually what happens is that something important will occur in order for the woman to get into shape - it could be a new relationship, a breakup, a job, a wedding where they'll be bridesmaid, etc. Then, when the novelty wears off and they get settled or they find out they are unhappy for some reason, the natural weight comes back. I've seen this repeatedly.

Usually when a girl gets fat, it means that they are MISERABLE - inside and out. Avoid fat chicks, unless you are turned on by them.
 

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they most likely have stretch marks

I think just having a lot of skin is even more common. It reminds me of a flying squirrel, like they could stretch it out and glide away on the wind.
 
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I'm supposed to meet up with a chick tonight who admitted this morning she was 200+ lbs two years ago and gradually lost weight down to 160.

She seems "curvy" for her height and I wouldn't have ever guessed she was over weight but now knowing that its throwing off my attraction. Don't know what to do
 

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tryst type said:
I'm supposed to meet up with a chick tonight who admitted this morning she was 200+ lbs two years ago and gradually lost weight down to 160.

She seems "curvy" for her height and I wouldn't have ever guessed she was over weight but now knowing that its throwing off my attraction. Don't know what to do

Drink alcohol.
Turn the lights off.
Profit.
 

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tryst type said:
I don't know why, maybe I'm shallow? It sucks honestly but, I've noticed that when I discover a girl used to be really heavyset and has lost a big chunk of it I instantly lose physical attraction.

It's like a switch in my head goes off and I only see them as "fat" even if they're now in shape/fit.

I think part of is stems from the fact that they most likely have stretch marks in various parts of their body and I'm not a fan of that.
I've been there. Makes you wonder if you end up getting into a LTR with her will she balloon back up once she gets comfortable? Yes, she most likely will.
 

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Was with a former fattie once. She looked ok with clothes on but when naked had a nasty scar she said was from the weight loss surgery. I hit it anyway. Like someone just said, LOW lights
 
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