Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Overweight girls that lose substantial weight

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I don't know why, maybe I'm shallow? It sucks honestly but, I've noticed that when I discover a girl used to be really heavyset and has lost a big chunk of it I instantly lose physical attraction.

It's like a switch in my head goes off and I only see them as "fat" even if they're now in shape/fit.

I think part of is stems from the fact that they most likely have stretch marks in various parts of their body and I'm not a fan of that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tryst type said:
I don't know why, maybe I'm shallow? It sucks honestly but, I've noticed that when I discover a girl used to be really heavyset and has lost a big chunk of it I instantly lose physical attraction.

It's like a switch in my head goes off and I only see them as "fat" even if they're now in shape/fit.

I think part of is stems from the fact that they most likely have stretch marks in various parts of their body and I'm not a fan of that.
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And they will most likely go back to being fat at some point. Usually what happens is that something important will occur in order for the woman to get into shape - it could be a new relationship, a breakup, a job, a wedding where they'll be bridesmaid, etc. Then, when the novelty wears off and they get settled or they find out they are unhappy for some reason, the natural weight comes back. I've seen this repeatedly.

Usually when a girl gets fat, it means that they are MISERABLE - inside and out. Avoid fat chicks, unless you are turned on by them.
 
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they most likely have stretch marks

I think just having a lot of skin is even more common. It reminds me of a flying squirrel, like they could stretch it out and glide away on the wind.
 
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I'm supposed to meet up with a chick tonight who admitted this morning she was 200+ lbs two years ago and gradually lost weight down to 160.

She seems "curvy" for her height and I wouldn't have ever guessed she was over weight but now knowing that its throwing off my attraction. Don't know what to do
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tryst type said:
I'm supposed to meet up with a chick tonight who admitted this morning she was 200+ lbs two years ago and gradually lost weight down to 160.

She seems "curvy" for her height and I wouldn't have ever guessed she was over weight but now knowing that its throwing off my attraction. Don't know what to do
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Drink alcohol.
Turn the lights off.
Profit.
 
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tryst type said:
I don't know why, maybe I'm shallow? It sucks honestly but, I've noticed that when I discover a girl used to be really heavyset and has lost a big chunk of it I instantly lose physical attraction.

It's like a switch in my head goes off and I only see them as "fat" even if they're now in shape/fit.

I think part of is stems from the fact that they most likely have stretch marks in various parts of their body and I'm not a fan of that.
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I've been there. Makes you wonder if you end up getting into a LTR with her will she balloon back up once she gets comfortable? Yes, she most likely will.
 
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Was with a former fattie once. She looked ok with clothes on but when naked had a nasty scar she said was from the weight loss surgery. I hit it anyway. Like someone just said, LOW lights
 
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