"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Overheard conversation about how Jamican men pick up girls...

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....one girl said to a girl and a guy behind her "they pick up girls in letters.", I'm like wtf and I stared at them, the girl talking started staring at me back, I averted gase and walked away without inquiring further of what these strangers were talking about but I think I'd continue the discussion here.

How can you pick up a girl using letters? Is that possible? What did they mean? Anyone here have a clue?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I wish I could tell you. That's pretty strange.
 
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you gotta be kiddin me.

"they pick up guys in letters" is a figure of speach.. albeit one I never understood.. like saying "he gets women in droves" or something alone thoose lines.
 
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yes, it's a figure of speech. I'm half jamaican, and I can tell you that the way jamaican's get their girls are through slick speech and confidence. But I am talking about real rude bwoy jamaicans. They see what they want and they go after it, persistently. My dad for one is a sweet talker.
 
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are you a rasta? my best friends fiancee's DAD is one... he's....different than anything I'm used to. however when I lived down in FL they became pretty common place
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backbreaker said:
are you a rasta? my best friends fiancee's DAD is one... he's....different than anything I'm used to. however when I lived down in FL they became pretty common place
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nah. not at all. I don't find that lifestyle attractive...
 
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Luke Skywalker said:
I'm not a rasta, I just overheard this conversation.
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Luke, I see your Jedi skills are lacking. :D
 
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Yeah, from what I hear, playing women is a national past-time in Jamaica. But black dudes in general have the most game. Almost like it comes natural.
 
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The average Caribbean male has four sex partners at any given time.

True Rastas avoid meat and alcohol, but the term in most of the Caribbean has come to mean, "stoned guy in a funny hat."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Probably be a good thing to make friends with a Jamaican dude and learn what he's doing to pull in so much poon.
 
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All carribean men are sex-feinds according to women
 
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Probably be a good thing to make friends with a Jamaican dude and learn what he's doing to pull in so much poon.
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lol,if he can stand the smell.

I advise sitting down with a 40 year old Dominican native and prying his mind about women.
 
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How racist is this thread......

*Pulls out racism meter*


.....oops, sorry guys the meter reading is too high


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