"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Overheard conversation about how Jamican men pick up girls...

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....one girl said to a girl and a guy behind her "they pick up girls in letters.", I'm like wtf and I stared at them, the girl talking started staring at me back, I averted gase and walked away without inquiring further of what these strangers were talking about but I think I'd continue the discussion here.

How can you pick up a girl using letters? Is that possible? What did they mean? Anyone here have a clue?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I wish I could tell you. That's pretty strange.
 
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you gotta be kiddin me.

"they pick up guys in letters" is a figure of speach.. albeit one I never understood.. like saying "he gets women in droves" or something alone thoose lines.
 
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yes, it's a figure of speech. I'm half jamaican, and I can tell you that the way jamaican's get their girls are through slick speech and confidence. But I am talking about real rude bwoy jamaicans. They see what they want and they go after it, persistently. My dad for one is a sweet talker.
 
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are you a rasta? my best friends fiancee's DAD is one... he's....different than anything I'm used to. however when I lived down in FL they became pretty common place
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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backbreaker said:
are you a rasta? my best friends fiancee's DAD is one... he's....different than anything I'm used to. however when I lived down in FL they became pretty common place
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nah. not at all. I don't find that lifestyle attractive...
 
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Luke Skywalker said:
I'm not a rasta, I just overheard this conversation.
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Luke, I see your Jedi skills are lacking. :D
 
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Yeah, from what I hear, playing women is a national past-time in Jamaica. But black dudes in general have the most game. Almost like it comes natural.
 
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The average Caribbean male has four sex partners at any given time.

True Rastas avoid meat and alcohol, but the term in most of the Caribbean has come to mean, "stoned guy in a funny hat."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Probably be a good thing to make friends with a Jamaican dude and learn what he's doing to pull in so much poon.
 
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All carribean men are sex-feinds according to women
 
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speakeasy said:
Probably be a good thing to make friends with a Jamaican dude and learn what he's doing to pull in so much poon.
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lol,if he can stand the smell.

I advise sitting down with a 40 year old Dominican native and prying his mind about women.
 
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How racist is this thread......

*Pulls out racism meter*


.....oops, sorry guys the meter reading is too high


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