"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Overactive Sex Imagination

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Anytime I talk to girls, even unattractive ones I am mentally violating them 600 different ways. Within 5 seconds I've busted at least 3 nuts on their face and hit it from every angle. The thoughts themselves do not make me ashamed or anything, but sometimes I just find it annoying because it's totally involuntary, and I don't like not being in control of my own mind/impulses.

I am grateful to have a healthy libido and active sex life, but just wish the animalistic part of my mind did not have such a strong hold on me. I also feel like I could accomplish greater things if my head wasn't all up in some p*ssy every couple of seconds.

My friends tell me I'm overreacting, and pretty much all guys are like this. What do you think? Anyone else in the same boat?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Means you have an awesome fvcking libido at age 30. Sometimes I imagine having sex with them when talking to them but I don't see money shots from 3 different angles lmao.
 
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lol, I've actually calmed down quite a bit - at 20 this was a legitimate problem and I had to drop out of college because my d*ck literally ruled my life. Mind you I'm glad I dont have the opposite problem, but through most of my youth I lived under the impression it would calm down a lot more than it has. Hot chicks dont bug me so much, its when my mind generates on-the-spot porn for fatties and warpigs that it really bothers me. Just wish I was "normal" I guess
 
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Imagination about sex means that you are healthy.

You could have been worse off and be like one of those asexual people that don't think about sex at all. Could you imagine how miserable their life is?!
 
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Most men with super high sex drives also tend to go for b--- sex with other men. Seriously. Strange how homosexuality is cool in America these days, yet bisexuality isn't. Lots of guys bat from both sides of the plate.

Put two and two together, fellas. If you get hard by simply being in the vicinity of a broad I can only imagine what you would do seeing this...

http://vimeo.com/27877751
God Bless Bruce Weber :rock: Hell, I am not even gay...yet I kinda wish I was that dog :rolleyes: Oh yeah, if the only thing you remember is what you see at :44 you need to learn Russian and head for Ukraine.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have absolutely no problems with homo or bisexual people. I actually envy them for the ability they have to hook up so easily/quickly. But I'm definitely not gay or remotely curious. Guys really just gross me out on that level - aesthetically I find our forms clumsy and brutish compared to the elegant proportions of a woman's body. I even find the chubby/older ones hot. *shrugs*

I watched a few seconds of that video you posted and all I can say is that you are very courageous to "come out" here on SoSuave. Keep living life on your terms Jimbo :up:
 
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BigJimbo said:
Most men with super high sex drives also tend to go for b--- sex with other men. Seriously. Strange how homosexuality is cool in America these days, yet bisexuality isn't. Lots of guys bat from both sides of the plate.

Put two and two together, fellas. If you get hard by simply being in the vicinity of a broad I can only imagine what you would do seeing this...

http://vimeo.com/27877751
God Bless Bruce Weber :rock: Hell, I am not even gay...yet I kinda wish I was that dog :rolleyes: Oh yeah, if the only thing you remember is what you see at :44 you need to learn Russian and head for Ukraine.
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It's a reason there's a stereotype about European men. This is it.
 
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I don't think about b@nging every girl I see, but with most of them I do think:

- I wonder if she shaves the be@ver or has an old school fur pie going on

- I wonder if she is an innie \|/ or an outie \{}/

- I wonder what her snatch would smell like if I put my nose down there and took a big wiff. Is she freshy, funky, or fishy?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Atom Smasher said:
I recommend just asking directly. ;)
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I have a few times in a few drunkin' moments. Once I was out drinking with some cop friends of mine back at my old department. My Sergeant, married, had a major b0ner for one of the female rookie officers, also married. Said he would give $1000 to just see her womanhood one time and I think he meant it. So I flat out asked her if she was innie or outie, and if she shaved the be@ver's beard, just to make a picture for him. With no hesitation or emotion at all she answered like it was no big deal. My old Sergeant says after 5 years he still looks at her differently sense that night! good times! :rockon:
 
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