"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Overactive Sex Imagination

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Anytime I talk to girls, even unattractive ones I am mentally violating them 600 different ways. Within 5 seconds I've busted at least 3 nuts on their face and hit it from every angle. The thoughts themselves do not make me ashamed or anything, but sometimes I just find it annoying because it's totally involuntary, and I don't like not being in control of my own mind/impulses.

I am grateful to have a healthy libido and active sex life, but just wish the animalistic part of my mind did not have such a strong hold on me. I also feel like I could accomplish greater things if my head wasn't all up in some p*ssy every couple of seconds.

My friends tell me I'm overreacting, and pretty much all guys are like this. What do you think? Anyone else in the same boat?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Means you have an awesome fvcking libido at age 30. Sometimes I imagine having sex with them when talking to them but I don't see money shots from 3 different angles lmao.
 
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lol, I've actually calmed down quite a bit - at 20 this was a legitimate problem and I had to drop out of college because my d*ck literally ruled my life. Mind you I'm glad I dont have the opposite problem, but through most of my youth I lived under the impression it would calm down a lot more than it has. Hot chicks dont bug me so much, its when my mind generates on-the-spot porn for fatties and warpigs that it really bothers me. Just wish I was "normal" I guess
 
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Imagination about sex means that you are healthy.

You could have been worse off and be like one of those asexual people that don't think about sex at all. Could you imagine how miserable their life is?!
 
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Most men with super high sex drives also tend to go for b--- sex with other men. Seriously. Strange how homosexuality is cool in America these days, yet bisexuality isn't. Lots of guys bat from both sides of the plate.

Put two and two together, fellas. If you get hard by simply being in the vicinity of a broad I can only imagine what you would do seeing this...

http://vimeo.com/27877751
God Bless Bruce Weber :rock: Hell, I am not even gay...yet I kinda wish I was that dog :rolleyes: Oh yeah, if the only thing you remember is what you see at :44 you need to learn Russian and head for Ukraine.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have absolutely no problems with homo or bisexual people. I actually envy them for the ability they have to hook up so easily/quickly. But I'm definitely not gay or remotely curious. Guys really just gross me out on that level - aesthetically I find our forms clumsy and brutish compared to the elegant proportions of a woman's body. I even find the chubby/older ones hot. *shrugs*

I watched a few seconds of that video you posted and all I can say is that you are very courageous to "come out" here on SoSuave. Keep living life on your terms Jimbo :up:
 
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BigJimbo said:
Most men with super high sex drives also tend to go for b--- sex with other men. Seriously. Strange how homosexuality is cool in America these days, yet bisexuality isn't. Lots of guys bat from both sides of the plate.

Put two and two together, fellas. If you get hard by simply being in the vicinity of a broad I can only imagine what you would do seeing this...

http://vimeo.com/27877751
God Bless Bruce Weber :rock: Hell, I am not even gay...yet I kinda wish I was that dog :rolleyes: Oh yeah, if the only thing you remember is what you see at :44 you need to learn Russian and head for Ukraine.
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It's a reason there's a stereotype about European men. This is it.
 
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I don't think about b@nging every girl I see, but with most of them I do think:

- I wonder if she shaves the be@ver or has an old school fur pie going on

- I wonder if she is an innie \|/ or an outie \{}/

- I wonder what her snatch would smell like if I put my nose down there and took a big wiff. Is she freshy, funky, or fishy?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Atom Smasher said:
I recommend just asking directly. ;)
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I have a few times in a few drunkin' moments. Once I was out drinking with some cop friends of mine back at my old department. My Sergeant, married, had a major b0ner for one of the female rookie officers, also married. Said he would give $1000 to just see her womanhood one time and I think he meant it. So I flat out asked her if she was innie or outie, and if she shaved the be@ver's beard, just to make a picture for him. With no hesitation or emotion at all she answered like it was no big deal. My old Sergeant says after 5 years he still looks at her differently sense that night! good times! :rockon:
 
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