Over analyzing everything is a WEAKNESS guys

[L777]

When youre young and inexperienced you tend to need a womans approval for certain things. I was like that but eventually matured and grew out of it. You need to find things that make you confident in yourself. It can be anything. For me its my athletic ability and intellect. And recently my looks. Theres nothing that makes you more confident than being able to dominate other men on the gridiron, weightroom, classroom, etc.

lol you just can't help it can ya? I'd actually love to meet you in real life....I outgame and tool fratboy American-Football players for fun on a quite regular basis.

You and potato should get together one night and wank each other off. Still can't believe that guy comes on here and says what he says at 48...some people

 

[NSUballer]

: I'd actually love to meet you in real life....

Im really not into meeting guys...

 

[00Kevin]

A DJ doesn't have time to think about crap like that. He is too busy perfecting his life and keeping track of all the women he is dating.

Parallel dating doesn't require thought

The OP is correct. Only b-tches sit around analyzing everything. That's why they are so insecure and unstable. They are not at one with themselves.

I think that anyone who says that men can't understand women is an idiot. Women are simple creatures and their minds are subject to manipulation due to their predictive emotional nature.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I'm not ranting on the quality of posts here, but a lot of you guys need to get over your insecurities and stop over analyzing everything. Take things for face value in the beginning, if a girl says she had a good time...then she had a good time.

If a girl won't return your texts, stop crying...theres a million other ones and chances are you'll never run into that snob anyway.

If you break it off or get dumped, it sucks...no Juan can say they don't miss at least something about a broad.

I try and think of relationships as a constant learning experience, if I get tired of the woman or find a flaw I can't live with and have to cut it off then I passed. If I get dumped, I failed. Failure sucks, but there is always something to learn with any relationship no matter if it is 1 date or a 5 year LTR.

Sorry for the "mini" rant, I'm just tired of seeing over analyzing peeps crying here on forum.

So, you made a thread saying that women is the root of all evil rather than money and made a rant yourself, yet you made this post earlier in December.
Whatever happened to you must have really been the straw that broke the camel's back. So, you said relationships are a constant learning experience, you've learned nothing positive I guess based on the sounds of that thread?

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

I'm not ranting on the quality of posts here, but a lot of you guys need to get over your insecurities and stop over analyzing everything. Take things for face value in the beginning, if a girl says she had a good time...then she had a good time.

If a girl won't return your texts, stop crying...theres a million other ones and chances are you'll never run into that snob anyway.

If you break it off or get dumped, it sucks...no Juan can say they don't miss at least something about a broad.

I try and think of relationships as a constant learning experience, if I get tired of the woman or find a flaw I can't live with and have to cut it off then I passed. If I get dumped, I failed. Failure sucks, but there is always something to learn with any relationship no matter if it is 1 date or a 5 year LTR.

Sorry for the "mini" rant, I'm just tired of seeing over analyzing peeps crying here on forum.

It's true. I have this problem too. Girl recently told me "give me a few days, I still love you" and I have been rethinking it each day. Dunno man, I find myself more obsessed with work lately...like...I get all my work done early, and I mow the lawn before it's even long...keeps you busy. But sometimes, while working, your mind will drink, and the over analyzing will begin again.

 

[Rebound Material]

Don't answer this in a post, but think for yourself (i might be wording the question wrong, but you should get the gist of what I'm sayin):

Do you personally feel that you would be more successful as a man if you were able to score hot chicks?

:EDIT:Do you derive happiness from seeing girls interested in you?

Be honest with yourself. Thats what I think he's getting at, but I may be COMPLETELY wrong lmao.

Good point, but the problem is that a great majority of us in this site do feel that way and yes, its a great flaw. I believe this is rooted from our lack of success with chicks in the present(and past) to begin with.

 

[dannyegg4575]

Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.

where do you come up with this sh>t? lol

 

[Moofahsa]

So, you made a thread saying that women is the root of all evil rather than money and made a rant yourself, yet you made this post earlier in December.
Whatever happened to you must have really been the straw that broke the camel's back. So, you said relationships are a constant learning experience, you've learned nothing positive I guess based on the sounds of that thread?

Nah you got me all wrong bro. It is a learning experience, but you can't really apply it to anything else.

Nothing "happened", thats the problem with all this womanizer sh!t. It did NOT and does NOT make me happy. Sex is great...but at what cost? YOUR TIME. I'd rather have a new vette in the driveway than some random broads cobalt.

The math stopped adding up for me, I'm bored with it all. Sex is sex is sex, so what? Doesn't matter if you **** one or the other, it is all the same...you get off and go to sleep...

 

[Technical1]

after a while in the field you begin to realize that each day's ups and downs are just "statistical noise" and that not everything has a reason that can be understood... plus the fruitlessness of thinking because you now have the option of doing. Instead of tearing apart yesterday's situation you can have a whole new situation today. Human beings are too complex for us ever to understand this stuff 100% anyway, but we can soldier on until something clicks.

 

[Technical1]

^ most of what I wrote above has to do with fluctuating IL coming from women. Some try to understand it, but the best move suggested by guys on here is just to move on.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I believe this is rooted from our lack of success with chicks in the present(and past) to begin with.

.... yup