Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
NSUballer said:
lol you just can't help it can ya? I'd actually love to meet you in real life....I outgame and tool fratboy American-Football players for fun on a quite regular basis.She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Im really not into meeting guys...L777 said:
So, you made a thread saying that women is the root of all evil rather than money and made a rant yourself, yet you made this post earlier in December.Moofahsa said:
It's true. I have this problem too. Girl recently told me "give me a few days, I still love you" and I have been rethinking it each day. Dunno man, I find myself more obsessed with work lately...like...I get all my work done early, and I mow the lawn before it's even long...keeps you busy. But sometimes, while working, your mind will drink, and the over analyzing will begin again.Moofahsa said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Good point, but the problem is that a great majority of us in this site do feel that way and yes, its a great flaw. I believe this is rooted from our lack of success with chicks in the present(and past) to begin with.LostAndConfused said:
where do you come up with this sh>t? lolFrancisco d'Anconia said:
Nah you got me all wrong bro. It is a learning experience, but you can't really apply it to anything else.Luke Skywalker said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.