"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For the last year1/2 to a year i've felt as if I'm no longer human and that i'm setting back watching NGE(National Geographic Explorer) Humans: Planet Earth

I swear, I'm even using "you humans" in sentences when I talk to people. Is this normal? I feel like I no longer fit in. I feel as if i'm now an observer of the human species. I know this sounds like straight rubbish, but I SWEAR this is how i feel.

It's like my eyes are wide open and I can see everything for what it really is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it sounds like you have some anger problems, and met some negative people in yur life and you dont want to associate yourself with these "humans"

the scary part is , seems like you have a problem seperating the people who hurt you, with everybody in general

either that, or you believe you are too good for everyone else, and you get some kind of power feeling that everybody is living life and you are just watching them (like god)
 
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I believe that there is some truth in both of your proposals. But to be perfectly honest this not something I have control over. It's just a feeling that comes over me from time to time. It's like one minute I'm a brainless zombie then the next "BAM", super-conscience vision then "BAM", mindless zombie, then "BAM" so on and so forth.
 
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I take it , right now you are in the brainless zombie stage?
 
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Only brainless zombies close their minds to infinite possibilities. Don't feel bad though you are definately a product of this world.

Cheers.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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