"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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DARKPOWER

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For the last year1/2 to a year i've felt as if I'm no longer human and that i'm setting back watching NGE(National Geographic Explorer) Humans: Planet Earth

I swear, I'm even using "you humans" in sentences when I talk to people. Is this normal? I feel like I no longer fit in. I feel as if i'm now an observer of the human species. I know this sounds like straight rubbish, but I SWEAR this is how i feel.

It's like my eyes are wide open and I can see everything for what it really is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ManOMan

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it sounds like you have some anger problems, and met some negative people in yur life and you dont want to associate yourself with these "humans"

the scary part is , seems like you have a problem seperating the people who hurt you, with everybody in general

either that, or you believe you are too good for everyone else, and you get some kind of power feeling that everybody is living life and you are just watching them (like god)
 

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I believe that there is some truth in both of your proposals. But to be perfectly honest this not something I have control over. It's just a feeling that comes over me from time to time. It's like one minute I'm a brainless zombie then the next "BAM", super-conscience vision then "BAM", mindless zombie, then "BAM" so on and so forth.
 

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I take it , right now you are in the brainless zombie stage?
 

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Only brainless zombies close their minds to infinite possibilities. Don't feel bad though you are definately a product of this world.

Cheers.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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