"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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There is a girl who inspires me to become more than I am. Her very thought makes me lose all interest in the pathetic activities I call hobbies.

I am chasing other girls. I do have more girls than I know what to do with. I do live the marvelous life a DJ is destined to live. But nothing, nothing, has ever been able to reduce what I do to some sort of boring mundane activity. An achievement reduced to nothing.

I have the same effect on her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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uhh...can you go more indepth into how she makes all your hobbies seem so trivial? doesn't seem too great but i can see your side. a dj should have hobbies but also goals and a passion.
 
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Hmm..

What are some of your hobbies? Some of your achievements?

Also, what exactly is it about her that makes you think that way of your hobbies?


I think that a real achievement is going up against all possible odds, and still coming out on top by sheer willpower and determination.

Just my thoughts.
 
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My oneitis had that effect on me. She made me want to do better. But now that I've kinda lost it, I can only depend on myself, which is how it really is in life you know. you really only have yourself to depend on because that is the only person you can control. Others...can fuk you over anytime. I'm not saying it will happen, but resting the essence of your very being with a girl is not a good idea man. GL lik
 
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Hmm...
I don't want to sound dumb or anything...but isn't it a good thing if this girl makes you want to be better? The second girl I had made me realize all of my insecurities, all of my weaknesses, and how I lacked real confidence. And after we dropped the whole thing, I kept improving and vowed to get better. But I just wouldn't do all of this just to impress someone,because that's the stupidest thing ever. If she makes your hobbies seem boring, I think that either you aren't dedicated enough to them or you don't like them as much as you think you do. But if you have the same effect on her, you must be pretty ****ing good as well.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Another exciting addition to your story Lik. Enjoy it.
 
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