MoreThanSmooth
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 8, 2017
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Feeling kinda sh*tty lately because I used to be athletic but work has destroyed my body over the last couple of years.
I still have a pretty good build with the exception of my stomach, which is scarred (old surgery) and fat.
Problem is, I now have a conflict between my opinion of my body and the girls I’m seeing. There’s an absolutely smoking South American girl into me at the moment and she seems to find me hot even with the extra couple of stone I’m carrying. Similarly, I’m getting drinks with a cute hippie chick who tells me I’m “buff” but tbh I feel like she wouldn’t like me naked.
Do I go for bedding these chicks regardless because they like me or should I back off for 6 months until I’m fit? Last thing I want is to take my kit off and get put down because I’m not what they thought I was.
Chicks apparently don’t care much about this stuff but I hate being fat tbh. Hitting the gym but it will take a while.
I still have a pretty good build with the exception of my stomach, which is scarred (old surgery) and fat.
Problem is, I now have a conflict between my opinion of my body and the girls I’m seeing. There’s an absolutely smoking South American girl into me at the moment and she seems to find me hot even with the extra couple of stone I’m carrying. Similarly, I’m getting drinks with a cute hippie chick who tells me I’m “buff” but tbh I feel like she wouldn’t like me naked.
Do I go for bedding these chicks regardless because they like me or should I back off for 6 months until I’m fit? Last thing I want is to take my kit off and get put down because I’m not what they thought I was.
Chicks apparently don’t care much about this stuff but I hate being fat tbh. Hitting the gym but it will take a while.