Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So you dont post full body pics on old, just face shots? I thought you're supposed to have full body shots so they see you're not fat or short. Where are your action and socializing pics too?
lol i never posted crap like that, women dont care.
LOL who says? I keep telling you... looks get you noticed, maybe. Not once, ever has a girl asked my body type, never.
Well on old had a 7.5 40 yr old talking to me and she wanted more lower body chest, torso pics. Thinking she thought I was too skinny. She was cute in shape but had a little flab like most 40 yr old wome so she can stfu. But you're in europe and women think different there.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Whoever's pictured could easily pass for mid to late 60's.
Of course you do. None of these claims can be disproven so you have total freedom to troll.
Troll.
You look kind of like a thin version of Goldberg. Some people are photogenic, the camera just likes them.
Just don't want it to be too thin or they might think you're a stick. I had one HB7 who thought i looked too thin and she asked for more torso pics because I have a thin face. I mean she was cute but had a little flab as well being 43 years old. Just needs to STFU when they say something like that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
if that is a HB7-7.5, then im dating 9s or above consistently cuz I dont do flab.
I mean tiny bit just around the butt but over all very athletic
Best to order a new spring for the HB scale. Unless they have one at Home Depot.