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I’m conflicted.

Women’s vaginas vary in depth and width. I get it. So does their tolerance and lust for pain.

I had sex with a petite Spanish broad last week who could take an absolute pounding. I’ve also banged hoes who say my piece is too big. The 18 yo from work was hard work but come the second time we had sex she took it all like a champ and this girl is built like a child (no pedo).

When I go deep and feel the knobbly bit at the end of the cervix, (real g’s will know) I’m tempted to ask if they’re ok, Spanish b turns and in her broken English basically says “if it hurts I’ll tell you” - wo - I felt emasculated - she was tight and at 25 could obv could take it which surprised me.

How do you know, how can you, my penis is not huge it’s thick and 7 inches which from my experience is big.

How on earth to 7+ Thick guys cope? You must be out there somewhere! How do you pound away without the inevitable ouch ouch ouch, head turn, and hand out pushing you back?

I told the story of Katie my ex and how recently I banged and it felt loose as hell. You know the head dipping we do back and forth that feels so good and makes us come real quick, entering her was so loose and dissappointing, however, she grabbed my hips and thrusted me into her and I came rapid within 5 min, the sex was great.

This is just a thread to get differing opinions on vagina feel and come speed I guess.
 

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There's a knobby thing? Whaaaaa?
 

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I think for some women, their inner organs are able to retract deeper than others, hence allowing for deeper penetration.
 

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I think for some women, their inner organs are able to retract deeper than others, hence allowing for deeper penetration.
No, I assure you, the vaginal tract, uterus fallopian tubes and ovaries are all fixed. They do not float, nor retract.

Vaginas can be shallower and deeper tho
 

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Think he’s referring to the cervix opening at the end of the vagina. Some are deeper than others…
Yeah, I figured. I've just personally never been up in there myself to know what it feels like.
 

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I think for some women, their inner organs are able to retract deeper than others, hence allowing for deeper penetration.
Exactly. The female organs are stationary, they do not "retract", they do not 'get out of the way' they elongate and lift up (tilt) just like the article said
 

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Exactly. The female organs are stationary, they do not "retract", they do not 'get out of the way' they elongate and lift up (tilt) just like the article said
I guess we have different definitions of “lift up”.
 

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Im somewhere between 7.5/8 and its impossible dry but most girls have no problem with lube or a lot of foreplay. Occasionally theres a girl who literally cant because of the pain but thats usually a thickness problem. Look at the petite chicks in porn taking it... they’re built to handle most
 

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You aint gonna hit the end in every female unless your porn star Mandigo. I know what you mean. We need to enjoy the sensation whether or not you max out their vaginal channel.
 

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You aint gonna hit the end in every female unless your porn star Mandigo. I know what you mean. We need to enjoy the sensation whether or not you max out their vaginal channel.
Not sure MGS. Size can be unfortunate for some men. I prefer petite ladies, around 5'1'' - 5'2'' and the last one got hurt because of the positioning of doggy with me. She moved during the middle and it all stopped. Size and girth can be a detriment. I sometimes wish I was smaller and thinner. With a girth of about 2 inches and a length just shy of 8.5 inches, it's a problem. Though, the last time I was with a lady who was 5'7'' it wasn't much of an issue. Not sure.
 

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Not sure MGS. Size can be unfortunate for some men. I prefer petite ladies, around 5'1'' - 5'2'' and the last one got hurt because of the positioning of doggy with me. She moved during the middle and it all stopped. Size and girth can be a detriment. I sometimes wish I was smaller and thinner. With a girth of about 2 inches and a length just shy of 8.5 inches, it's a problem. Though, the last time I was with a lady who was 5'7'' it wasn't much of an issue. Not sure.
Angles and positioning. You dont have to use every inch.
 

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I’m conflicted.

Women’s vaginas vary in depth and width. I get it. So does their tolerance and lust for pain.

I had sex with a petite Spanish broad last week who could take an absolute pounding. I’ve also banged hoes who say my piece is too big. The 18 yo from work was hard work but come the second time we had sex she took it all like a champ and this girl is built like a child (no pedo).

When I go deep and feel the knobbly bit at the end of the cervix, (real g’s will know) I’m tempted to ask if they’re ok, Spanish b turns and in her broken English basically says “if it hurts I’ll tell you” - wo - I felt emasculated - she was tight and at 25 could obv could take it which surprised me.

How do you know, how can you, my penis is not huge it’s thick and 7 inches which from my experience is big.

How on earth to 7+ Thick guys cope? You must be out there somewhere! How do you pound away without the inevitable ouch ouch ouch, head turn, and hand out pushing you back?

I told the story of Katie my ex and how recently I banged and it felt loose as hell. You know the head dipping we do back and forth that feels so good and makes us come real quick, entering her was so loose and dissappointing, however, she grabbed my hips and thrusted me into her and I came rapid within 5 min, the sex was great.

This is just a thread to get differing opinions on vagina feel and come speed I guess.
Women will make it clear that they are in pain. Just assume they aren’t. It’s not being insensitive but rather understanding that being overly sensitive will kill the mood.

Most women prefer skill over size. Sure there are always size queens, but not all of us are blessed genetically.
 

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Since we are on the topic...
Here are just five of the many responses to arousal:

"1. The Lips of the Vagina Darken When Stimulated
Upon arousal, the labia minora become visibly puffier, anticipating the arrival of the penis. Once aroused or stimulated, vaginal lips not only plump up, but also change their hue.

For someone who has never endured childbirth, the lips will probably transform from pinkish to red. For someone who has bore children, the vaginal lips will likely change from red to a shade of deep purple.

2. The Vagina Quite Literally Expands
The cervix and uterus actually raise up about two to three inches while aroused. As the uterus pulls up, the tissues of the vaginal walls inflate with blood, which causes the walls to lengthen. Just how much does it lengthen? The vagina can expand up to 200% when sexually stimulated. That’s…a lot.

3. The Breasts Swell Up
General rule of sex: Nearly every body part involved in sex swells. The breasts are no exception. In fact, even the nipples swell or harden once aroused (especially during foreplay!).

4. The C!itoral Hood Retracts and the C!itoris Hardens
That’s right: Penises aren’t the only genitalia that become erect during sex. When aroused, the ****oris grows bigger (side note: Did you know a woman’s ****oris grows her entire life?). If you’re super turned on, it can become three times its “normal” size.

It’s also packed with 8,000 nerve endings and serves no other purpose than sexual stimulation, which explains why it’s such a sensitive zone. (And also why more women experiences a ****oral orgasm in the place of a vaginal one.)

5. The Vagina Becomes Looser
We already know that the cervix and uterus raise up and the ****oris gets its version of a boner when aroused, but did you know that the vagina also technically gets looser? Once sex is over, everything returns to its normal tightness. But when prepping for sexual intercourse, it’s true that the vagina walls themselves loosen up."

By Stephanie Osmanski on March 21, 2016
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