"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I’m conflicted.

Women’s vaginas vary in depth and width. I get it. So does their tolerance and lust for pain.

I had sex with a petite Spanish broad last week who could take an absolute pounding. I’ve also banged hoes who say my piece is too big. The 18 yo from work was hard work but come the second time we had sex she took it all like a champ and this girl is built like a child (no pedo).

When I go deep and feel the knobbly bit at the end of the cervix, (real g’s will know) I’m tempted to ask if they’re ok, Spanish b turns and in her broken English basically says “if it hurts I’ll tell you” - wo - I felt emasculated - she was tight and at 25 could obv could take it which surprised me.

How do you know, how can you, my penis is not huge it’s thick and 7 inches which from my experience is big.

How on earth to 7+ Thick guys cope? You must be out there somewhere! How do you pound away without the inevitable ouch ouch ouch, head turn, and hand out pushing you back?

I told the story of Katie my ex and how recently I banged and it felt loose as hell. You know the head dipping we do back and forth that feels so good and makes us come real quick, entering her was so loose and dissappointing, however, she grabbed my hips and thrusted me into her and I came rapid within 5 min, the sex was great.

This is just a thread to get differing opinions on vagina feel and come speed I guess.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There's a knobby thing? Whaaaaa?
 

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I think for some women, their inner organs are able to retract deeper than others, hence allowing for deeper penetration.
 

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I think for some women, their inner organs are able to retract deeper than others, hence allowing for deeper penetration.
No, I assure you, the vaginal tract, uterus fallopian tubes and ovaries are all fixed. They do not float, nor retract.

Vaginas can be shallower and deeper tho
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Think he’s referring to the cervix opening at the end of the vagina. Some are deeper than others…
Yeah, I figured. I've just personally never been up in there myself to know what it feels like.
 

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I think for some women, their inner organs are able to retract deeper than others, hence allowing for deeper penetration.
Exactly. The female organs are stationary, they do not "retract", they do not 'get out of the way' they elongate and lift up (tilt) just like the article said
 

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Exactly. The female organs are stationary, they do not "retract", they do not 'get out of the way' they elongate and lift up (tilt) just like the article said
I guess we have different definitions of “lift up”.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im somewhere between 7.5/8 and its impossible dry but most girls have no problem with lube or a lot of foreplay. Occasionally theres a girl who literally cant because of the pain but thats usually a thickness problem. Look at the petite chicks in porn taking it... they’re built to handle most
 

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You aint gonna hit the end in every female unless your porn star Mandigo. I know what you mean. We need to enjoy the sensation whether or not you max out their vaginal channel.
 

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You aint gonna hit the end in every female unless your porn star Mandigo. I know what you mean. We need to enjoy the sensation whether or not you max out their vaginal channel.
Not sure MGS. Size can be unfortunate for some men. I prefer petite ladies, around 5'1'' - 5'2'' and the last one got hurt because of the positioning of doggy with me. She moved during the middle and it all stopped. Size and girth can be a detriment. I sometimes wish I was smaller and thinner. With a girth of about 2 inches and a length just shy of 8.5 inches, it's a problem. Though, the last time I was with a lady who was 5'7'' it wasn't much of an issue. Not sure.
 

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Not sure MGS. Size can be unfortunate for some men. I prefer petite ladies, around 5'1'' - 5'2'' and the last one got hurt because of the positioning of doggy with me. She moved during the middle and it all stopped. Size and girth can be a detriment. I sometimes wish I was smaller and thinner. With a girth of about 2 inches and a length just shy of 8.5 inches, it's a problem. Though, the last time I was with a lady who was 5'7'' it wasn't much of an issue. Not sure.
Angles and positioning. You dont have to use every inch.
 

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I’m conflicted.

Women’s vaginas vary in depth and width. I get it. So does their tolerance and lust for pain.

I had sex with a petite Spanish broad last week who could take an absolute pounding. I’ve also banged hoes who say my piece is too big. The 18 yo from work was hard work but come the second time we had sex she took it all like a champ and this girl is built like a child (no pedo).

When I go deep and feel the knobbly bit at the end of the cervix, (real g’s will know) I’m tempted to ask if they’re ok, Spanish b turns and in her broken English basically says “if it hurts I’ll tell you” - wo - I felt emasculated - she was tight and at 25 could obv could take it which surprised me.

How do you know, how can you, my penis is not huge it’s thick and 7 inches which from my experience is big.

How on earth to 7+ Thick guys cope? You must be out there somewhere! How do you pound away without the inevitable ouch ouch ouch, head turn, and hand out pushing you back?

I told the story of Katie my ex and how recently I banged and it felt loose as hell. You know the head dipping we do back and forth that feels so good and makes us come real quick, entering her was so loose and dissappointing, however, she grabbed my hips and thrusted me into her and I came rapid within 5 min, the sex was great.

This is just a thread to get differing opinions on vagina feel and come speed I guess.
Women will make it clear that they are in pain. Just assume they aren’t. It’s not being insensitive but rather understanding that being overly sensitive will kill the mood.

Most women prefer skill over size. Sure there are always size queens, but not all of us are blessed genetically.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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