"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ouch she didnt believe me!

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ok i met this girl i work with, to make a long story short, we started talking and she ended up liking some other dude i work with, i talked to him, and he said it would be cool if i tried to talk to her at the next level (he was my homeboy, and i told my homeboy that she liked him, thats why i asked)

so we talked a bit more, and was waiting for the rigth oppourtunity to see wats up with her, well it came last weekend i got a text from her saying that she has to tell me something, and she told me that she kinda liked me , blah blah, and it turned out to be her friends, this is the 2nd time her friends did that to me...so i thought fu*ck it, here's my opportunit, and it was all bad she said that she didnt believe me cause seh knows me too well (i flirt with the girls alot at work and hit on alot of customers there) but finally i was able to convince her, cause i wouldnt leave her alone till she said she believed me....i told her i would call her this week and see if we can go out and she said yeah as friends...ok my question is: how can i prove that im serious?

i know she said that she believes me, but i have my doubts....should i get her a little gift (i have stuffed animals still from when i was a kid, i was gonna give her that, $$$ saved!!! hahaha) anyway i want to build up on this and gain her trust...i called her and she said she was busy so i was gonna wait a few days to call her agian, but since me her and 6 other coworkers are going to the el*ephant ba*r that recently opened, i think it may be pointless to call her and ask her out this week...should i call anyway? thanks for your advice, and if ur gonna flame me, dont cause i want to make her believe me even if nothing ever comes out of this.....thanks

oh and i also talk to her about other girls, she knows i wanna get the number of some girl who works at another store in the mall, and its hard also cause her sister works there too so i really have to watch it...any advice will be appreciated: and by teh way i know someone's gonna ask this: she's 18.........thanks again for ur advice...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So...let me get this straight.

*She's seeing some other guy

*You're a player, flirting with lots of women.

*You think giving her dusty, left-over-from-my-childhood, scruffy old toys will make her like you. (Why are you giving her anything? She hasn't earned a gift from you yet! You have to BRIBE girls to date you? NO AFC!)

*You tell her you want to get #'s and mack on other girls...

And yet you have no idea why she doesn't belive you?

Sorry Dude, I don't belive you either!
 
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lol nah nah she is interested in him, which she says is totally different from liking him, but i dont see how.....lol well i do like her and ill do wat i gotta do to get her
 

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Originally posted by la-migra-is-after-me
lol nah nah she is interested in him, which she says is totally different from liking him, but i dont see how.....lol well i do like her and ill do wat i gotta do to get her
Read the bible, your in the LJBF zone, or awfully close.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol we'll see man, i dont have oneitis, i got my eye on this other hunny that works in teh mall, but i dont wanna give up on this one till the final no so we'll see
but thanks for ur advice, and all the advice from above
 
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