"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So it seems like every once and awhile,I swear I shrink a little muscle wise. The past three times this has happened I would also swear that I hit a growth spert for my muscles(overall not a specific one) shortly after. Is this common or am is it my head just messing with me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This happened to me a while back but it what due to the water weight i was losing and gaining.

Are you taking creatin or creachylin ??
 
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i think is your mind playing tricks with you, it happens to me, but still is the same size when i check it, so dont worry man
 
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maybe your checkin up on your muscles too often.

I know one rule that applys to getting lean and big and going on a weight loss diet is not to check up on your self soo often.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Charm&Style said:
maybe your checkin up on your muscles too often.

I know one rule that applys to getting lean and big and going on a weight loss diet is not to check up on your self soo often.
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That could be it.
 
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