"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blinkwatt

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So it seems like every once and awhile,I swear I shrink a little muscle wise. The past three times this has happened I would also swear that I hit a growth spert for my muscles(overall not a specific one) shortly after. Is this common or am is it my head just messing with me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This happened to me a while back but it what due to the water weight i was losing and gaining.

Are you taking creatin or creachylin ??
 
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i think is your mind playing tricks with you, it happens to me, but still is the same size when i check it, so dont worry man
 

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maybe your checkin up on your muscles too often.

I know one rule that applys to getting lean and big and going on a weight loss diet is not to check up on your self soo often.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Charm&Style said:
maybe your checkin up on your muscles too often.

I know one rule that applys to getting lean and big and going on a weight loss diet is not to check up on your self soo often.
That could be it.
 
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