"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Other ways to say "How does that make you feel?"

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Hey guys, first post, so Hi to all my DJ's out there.

The line "How does that make you feel" works great when talking to women. I was just wondering what variants of that question you all used when talking to women to prevent sounding like a broken record? Please post!!

-j
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In what context are you using this question?
 

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Hmm, a contextual example.

Well it could be anything that the girl would have an opinion about. A band, a movie or book, her job/career, clothing, place to shop, food, etc.

The point of the question is to continue sounding interested, hopefully sincerely so, and to keep them engaged in the conversation. I'm just trying to expand my "game vocabulary"...
 

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Stick with that line, it's gold. Just understand that a woman will usually answer the question in great detial. :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SORRY....but because so many guys are using player-like ss and nlp stuff, it just comes off as fake now-a-days.

focus more on re-programing your mind, (do some research) then on ss and nlp.
 

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Originally posted by Ever onward
NLP is reprogramming your mind. :rolleyes:
Shhh.. don't tell everyone the secret... :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh.....I thought NLP on a relationship standpoint, was reprogramming the other persons mind, by listening to their statements, and answering in a way that changes the way they think or so on.......

but I guess you guys have all the answers. Who am I?

PVSSY-EATER IS FVCKIN OUT
 

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
PVSSY-EATER IS FVCKIN OUT
Dude, why don't you just stay around? You're always coming and going! :D
 

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
Oh.....I thought NLP on a relationship standpoint, was reprogramming the other persons mind, by listening to their statements, and answering in a way that changes the way they think or so on.......
Who gave you that idea?
 

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"tell me what you heard about....."

"you wanna discuss it...."

"what do you think of that.."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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