"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Other ways to say "How does that make you feel?"

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Hey guys, first post, so Hi to all my DJ's out there.

The line "How does that make you feel" works great when talking to women. I was just wondering what variants of that question you all used when talking to women to prevent sounding like a broken record? Please post!!

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In what context are you using this question?
 
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Hmm, a contextual example.

Well it could be anything that the girl would have an opinion about. A band, a movie or book, her job/career, clothing, place to shop, food, etc.

The point of the question is to continue sounding interested, hopefully sincerely so, and to keep them engaged in the conversation. I'm just trying to expand my "game vocabulary"...
 
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Stick with that line, it's gold. Just understand that a woman will usually answer the question in great detial. :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SORRY....but because so many guys are using player-like ss and nlp stuff, it just comes off as fake now-a-days.

focus more on re-programing your mind, (do some research) then on ss and nlp.
 
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Originally posted by Ever onward
NLP is reprogramming your mind. :rolleyes:
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Shhh.. don't tell everyone the secret... :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh.....I thought NLP on a relationship standpoint, was reprogramming the other persons mind, by listening to their statements, and answering in a way that changes the way they think or so on.......

but I guess you guys have all the answers. Who am I?

PVSSY-EATER IS FVCKIN OUT
 
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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
PVSSY-EATER IS FVCKIN OUT
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Dude, why don't you just stay around? You're always coming and going! :D
 
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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
Oh.....I thought NLP on a relationship standpoint, was reprogramming the other persons mind, by listening to their statements, and answering in a way that changes the way they think or so on.......
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Who gave you that idea?
 
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"tell me what you heard about....."

"you wanna discuss it...."

"what do you think of that.."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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