"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Other ways to say "How does that make you feel?"

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Hey guys, first post, so Hi to all my DJ's out there.

The line "How does that make you feel" works great when talking to women. I was just wondering what variants of that question you all used when talking to women to prevent sounding like a broken record? Please post!!

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In what context are you using this question?
 
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Hmm, a contextual example.

Well it could be anything that the girl would have an opinion about. A band, a movie or book, her job/career, clothing, place to shop, food, etc.

The point of the question is to continue sounding interested, hopefully sincerely so, and to keep them engaged in the conversation. I'm just trying to expand my "game vocabulary"...
 
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Stick with that line, it's gold. Just understand that a woman will usually answer the question in great detial. :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SORRY....but because so many guys are using player-like ss and nlp stuff, it just comes off as fake now-a-days.

focus more on re-programing your mind, (do some research) then on ss and nlp.
 
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Originally posted by Ever onward
NLP is reprogramming your mind. :rolleyes:
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Shhh.. don't tell everyone the secret... :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh.....I thought NLP on a relationship standpoint, was reprogramming the other persons mind, by listening to their statements, and answering in a way that changes the way they think or so on.......

but I guess you guys have all the answers. Who am I?

PVSSY-EATER IS FVCKIN OUT
 
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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
PVSSY-EATER IS FVCKIN OUT
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Dude, why don't you just stay around? You're always coming and going! :D
 
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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
Oh.....I thought NLP on a relationship standpoint, was reprogramming the other persons mind, by listening to their statements, and answering in a way that changes the way they think or so on.......
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Who gave you that idea?
 
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"tell me what you heard about....."

"you wanna discuss it...."

"what do you think of that.."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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