Somtimes other guys start holding around me, and then twisting my nipple in front of girls. Or they will whisper sexual gay stuff in my ear. All this is of course just funny for them, but should i act with them? Tell them how gay it is? Or just be compleately ignorant.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Other guys acting gay.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dude they're just messing around, when I played football in highschool people on the team would always be acting gay, loosen up and laugh with them, or tell them to fvck off.Tormod said:Somtimes other guys start holding around me, and then twisting my nipple in front of girls. Or they will whisper sexual gay stuff in my ear. All this is of course just funny for them, but should i act with them? Tell them how gay it is? Or just be compleately ignorant.
NorwegianDJ
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The term is AMOGing.
What I do is I take it a step further. First one to give up loses. Just pet their nose or something, and dont be reactive about it. You can make some boundaries evident tho.
What I do is I take it a step further. First one to give up loses. Just pet their nose or something, and dont be reactive about it. You can make some boundaries evident tho.
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Lol you have to beat a man at his own game. Basically you need to show that it doesn't bother you. And the best way to do that is to act gayer than they are right back at them. It's all a joke either way so don't take anything to heart.
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If you're uncomfortable with it tell them to cut the ****. I hate when people do that its annoying as hell and not funny at all.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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What is a dude really trying to do when he starts acting "gay" like that? What are his motivations anyway? Just a laugh? No it doesn't seem like that to me. Maybe some guys find it funny, but I think there's something else going on...
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Well I do the thing I always do when I'm in an uncomfortable situation: make a joke out of it. You can loudly exclaim "I know I'm super sexy but you don't have to be THAT obvious about it" or "oh man, now even the guys start hitting on me!" or something ridiculous like that. If they continue being gay then tell them off...
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hahahahahhaJustLurk said:Discreetly check for boners.
If boners, run.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
They're most likely just messing around.
My buddies always do this sh1t. Even when I was in highschool. And like Norwegian said. What I do I escalate it until they give up and them I call them a fag and continue what I was doing. If they're not gay it should work. If they are...sorry. One of my friends in HS would get really pissed when anyone messed with him like that. Then we found out hes gay, still one of my good friends though (but I digress). If your not comfortable with it then make sure to set your boundaries with them, and deal consequence to whoever crosses the line.
My buddies always do this sh1t. Even when I was in highschool. And like Norwegian said. What I do I escalate it until they give up and them I call them a fag and continue what I was doing. If they're not gay it should work. If they are...sorry. One of my friends in HS would get really pissed when anyone messed with him like that. Then we found out hes gay, still one of my good friends though (but I digress). If your not comfortable with it then make sure to set your boundaries with them, and deal consequence to whoever crosses the line.