Somtimes other guys start holding around me, and then twisting my nipple in front of girls. Or they will whisper sexual gay stuff in my ear. All this is of course just funny for them, but should i act with them? Tell them how gay it is? Or just be compleately ignorant.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Other guys acting gay.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dude they're just messing around, when I played football in highschool people on the team would always be acting gay, loosen up and laugh with them, or tell them to fvck off.Tormod said:Somtimes other guys start holding around me, and then twisting my nipple in front of girls. Or they will whisper sexual gay stuff in my ear. All this is of course just funny for them, but should i act with them? Tell them how gay it is? Or just be compleately ignorant.
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The term is AMOGing.
What I do is I take it a step further. First one to give up loses. Just pet their nose or something, and dont be reactive about it. You can make some boundaries evident tho.
What I do is I take it a step further. First one to give up loses. Just pet their nose or something, and dont be reactive about it. You can make some boundaries evident tho.
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Lol you have to beat a man at his own game. Basically you need to show that it doesn't bother you. And the best way to do that is to act gayer than they are right back at them. It's all a joke either way so don't take anything to heart.
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If you're uncomfortable with it tell them to cut the ****. I hate when people do that its annoying as hell and not funny at all.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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What is a dude really trying to do when he starts acting "gay" like that? What are his motivations anyway? Just a laugh? No it doesn't seem like that to me. Maybe some guys find it funny, but I think there's something else going on...
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Well I do the thing I always do when I'm in an uncomfortable situation: make a joke out of it. You can loudly exclaim "I know I'm super sexy but you don't have to be THAT obvious about it" or "oh man, now even the guys start hitting on me!" or something ridiculous like that. If they continue being gay then tell them off...
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hahahahahhaJustLurk said:Discreetly check for boners.
If boners, run.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
They're most likely just messing around.
My buddies always do this sh1t. Even when I was in highschool. And like Norwegian said. What I do I escalate it until they give up and them I call them a fag and continue what I was doing. If they're not gay it should work. If they are...sorry. One of my friends in HS would get really pissed when anyone messed with him like that. Then we found out hes gay, still one of my good friends though (but I digress). If your not comfortable with it then make sure to set your boundaries with them, and deal consequence to whoever crosses the line.
My buddies always do this sh1t. Even when I was in highschool. And like Norwegian said. What I do I escalate it until they give up and them I call them a fag and continue what I was doing. If they're not gay it should work. If they are...sorry. One of my friends in HS would get really pissed when anyone messed with him like that. Then we found out hes gay, still one of my good friends though (but I digress). If your not comfortable with it then make sure to set your boundaries with them, and deal consequence to whoever crosses the line.