Somtimes other guys start holding around me, and then twisting my nipple in front of girls. Or they will whisper sexual gay stuff in my ear. All this is of course just funny for them, but should i act with them? Tell them how gay it is? Or just be compleately ignorant.
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Other guys acting gay.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude they're just messing around, when I played football in highschool people on the team would always be acting gay, loosen up and laugh with them, or tell them to fvck off.Tormod said:Somtimes other guys start holding around me, and then twisting my nipple in front of girls. Or they will whisper sexual gay stuff in my ear. All this is of course just funny for them, but should i act with them? Tell them how gay it is? Or just be compleately ignorant.
NorwegianDJ
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The term is AMOGing.
What I do is I take it a step further. First one to give up loses. Just pet their nose or something, and dont be reactive about it. You can make some boundaries evident tho.
What I do is I take it a step further. First one to give up loses. Just pet their nose or something, and dont be reactive about it. You can make some boundaries evident tho.
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Lol you have to beat a man at his own game. Basically you need to show that it doesn't bother you. And the best way to do that is to act gayer than they are right back at them. It's all a joke either way so don't take anything to heart.
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If you're uncomfortable with it tell them to cut the ****. I hate when people do that its annoying as hell and not funny at all.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm in the Mood
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What is a dude really trying to do when he starts acting "gay" like that? What are his motivations anyway? Just a laugh? No it doesn't seem like that to me. Maybe some guys find it funny, but I think there's something else going on...
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Well I do the thing I always do when I'm in an uncomfortable situation: make a joke out of it. You can loudly exclaim "I know I'm super sexy but you don't have to be THAT obvious about it" or "oh man, now even the guys start hitting on me!" or something ridiculous like that. If they continue being gay then tell them off...
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hahahahahhaJustLurk said:Discreetly check for boners.
If boners, run.
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They're most likely just messing around.
My buddies always do this sh1t. Even when I was in highschool. And like Norwegian said. What I do I escalate it until they give up and them I call them a fag and continue what I was doing. If they're not gay it should work. If they are...sorry. One of my friends in HS would get really pissed when anyone messed with him like that. Then we found out hes gay, still one of my good friends though (but I digress). If your not comfortable with it then make sure to set your boundaries with them, and deal consequence to whoever crosses the line.
My buddies always do this sh1t. Even when I was in highschool. And like Norwegian said. What I do I escalate it until they give up and them I call them a fag and continue what I was doing. If they're not gay it should work. If they are...sorry. One of my friends in HS would get really pissed when anyone messed with him like that. Then we found out hes gay, still one of my good friends though (but I digress). If your not comfortable with it then make sure to set your boundaries with them, and deal consequence to whoever crosses the line.