"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Orgasm at the same time?
- Thread starter Jon55
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Apocalypse Now
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 16, 2009
- Messages
- 61
- Reaction score
- 1
What he said. simultaneous O's are for the movies but I can usually get it pretty close...though why stop if you can make her cvm more than once?Apocalypse Now said:I can control when I come to a certain degree, so I just hold off until she's coming and then mentally let go and we both climax at the same time.
Teflon_Mcgee
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 3, 2006
- Messages
- 918
- Reaction score
- 27
For some reason chicks like that????
Wierdos.....
Guoy Darko
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 20, 2006
- Messages
- 297
- Reaction score
- 3
- Age
- 43
It's pretty weird, because you have to plan it almost. Ask her to tell you in advance (about 30 sec.) when she's about to come. Then hold it yourself and try to come at the same time. :S
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I wouldn't say it really makes anything better or there's even a point to it though.
Seriously...
I don't really waste any time thinking about it.
When I get done, I'm done, and if she had an orgasm in the mean time, good for her. Only time when I try to be conscious of how long things are running is if I'm drunk, otherwise I get complaints about sore coochies.
But all of that orgasm timing business, like said before, is hollywood magic. All of that fantastic coincidental match made in heaven junk.
Gustav Yavo
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 5, 2007
- Messages
- 116
- Reaction score
- 1
Girls love when you both come at the same time, i have no idea why, but its been asked of me numerous times, i can't do it all the time, but maybe 45% of the time. Whenever i feel like coming i get out and switch positions.
I do agree however that this idea is most likely directly from hollywood, but its completely possible to do.
Do you know her hot spots? Usually how it happens is...
1. Get a good rhythm going when I'm in her the right way
2. Then touch her in the right places... for instance with this one girl she goes way over the edge when I suck/kiss/lightly bite her neck in the right spot.
If you know what she likes, and you do a combination of the things she likes at the right time when you're really going at it, you have a good shot of having this happen.
And if it's some girl you don't know that well? Hey, it's not like it matters in that situation, right?