"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Orgasm at the same time?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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What he said. simultaneous O's are for the movies but I can usually get it pretty close...though why stop if you can make her cvm more than once?Apocalypse Now said:I can control when I come to a certain degree, so I just hold off until she's coming and then mentally let go and we both climax at the same time.
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For some reason chicks like that????
Wierdos.....
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It's pretty weird, because you have to plan it almost. Ask her to tell you in advance (about 30 sec.) when she's about to come. Then hold it yourself and try to come at the same time. :S
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I wouldn't say it really makes anything better or there's even a point to it though.
Seriously...
I don't really waste any time thinking about it.
When I get done, I'm done, and if she had an orgasm in the mean time, good for her. Only time when I try to be conscious of how long things are running is if I'm drunk, otherwise I get complaints about sore coochies.
But all of that orgasm timing business, like said before, is hollywood magic. All of that fantastic coincidental match made in heaven junk.
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Girls love when you both come at the same time, i have no idea why, but its been asked of me numerous times, i can't do it all the time, but maybe 45% of the time. Whenever i feel like coming i get out and switch positions.
I do agree however that this idea is most likely directly from hollywood, but its completely possible to do.
Do you know her hot spots? Usually how it happens is...
1. Get a good rhythm going when I'm in her the right way
2. Then touch her in the right places... for instance with this one girl she goes way over the edge when I suck/kiss/lightly bite her neck in the right spot.
If you know what she likes, and you do a combination of the things she likes at the right time when you're really going at it, you have a good shot of having this happen.
And if it's some girl you don't know that well? Hey, it's not like it matters in that situation, right?