"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oral Sex question

killerasp

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Im seeing this girl and i dont want sex just yet fearing she will become attached..but i do want some some head. Ive never gotten it before so im just asking what is the best way to go ahead and "request" it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SLICK-RIC

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Dont say, " Suck me beautiful.!!!!"
 

killerasp

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hahah..tried those lines already...how about something more realistic?
 

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After you two have been fooling around for a while let her get some action. Step up to the plate and finger her. Girls always return the favor. As long as you do a good job and get her off she will want to do the same for you. Notice I said get her off not have her fake it. When she is giving you a hand job say it isn't working. Most girls will then go down on you. Just make sure you tell her before your bust if you want her to do it again. Although some girls don't mind, especially if she is new at that she will appreciate it, maybe the next time you can get her to swallow.

Cheers
-Andrew
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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apply pressure to her head as necessary. they will get the idea and either start sucking or tell you flat out "i'm not giving you head". I've only gotten the latter once.
 

So pimp its scary

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My favorite was :

Me : Suck my c0ck!
Her : How dare you ask me for that?!?!
Me : I dare cause you're gonna like it.
moments later
Her :*gobblegobblegobble*
 

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You have to discuss oral sex in a non sexual situation. See where her mind is on the subject. She might tell you its her favorite thing in the whole world. She will probably say "oh no I would never do that." No matter what she says tell her you love oral sex and that its your favorite thing in all the world. Tell her that there is nothing you respect more than a woman who isnt afraid to express herself sexually, be YOUR freak, or totally satisfy her man. You have to make it sound like giving you oral sex would make her the queen of your world. Sum chix are dum enough to fall for it sum aren't.
 

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Youre 21 and have never gotten head...lolz....damn

ummmm...it depends with who ur asking...if shes older and experienced...you can usually ask...but if they are unexperienced just apply pressure and just say suck it for a little bit...and then keep them down there for hours...lolz
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just do it.

Whether you believe it or not, girls will get attached whether there is sex involved or not.

If the end result is the same, might as well have some fun getting there!
 

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Originally posted by killerasp
i do want some some head.
lol excellent
 

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Re: Re: Oral Sex question

LOL !!!

Last night the waitress came up and said have any desert? And I said... (see above)....
 

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Ive never been shot down on this one. Once the girl is playin with my cok for awhile, i brush my fingers across her lips and tell her to "use these."
 
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