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And yet you still find time to obsess about me and fantasise that I want to engage in your weird lifestyle. It’s your cope.

You’ll have to be a loser on your own this time. Nobody here can relate to your life choice. Go and piss in your ancestor’s face in private.
this sexpats also most likely have some mental problems

this guys should ask themselves if their grandfather or other ancestors would consider him a man or not , as they say that poor countries are more traditional and this is why they go there

Really doubt that anyones grandfather or ancestors would high five a sex tourists for giving up the fight . Most likely would tell them that they are not men but a bunch of s1ssies
 
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And yet you still find time to obsess about me and fantasise that I want to engage in your weird lifestyle. It’s your cope.

You’ll have to be a loser on your own this time. Nobody here can relate to your life choice. Go and piss in your ancestor’s face in private.
Hey man, seems like you have some latent narcissist tendencies. I created a detailed post to share my data about dating apps and then you came to my thread, with your very jaded background, to spam the thread and say that all women using bumble are trash and asians women are similar to ladyboys. I politely explain to you that it's due to your lack of experience. I also believe that you may be a person that is too easily influenceable, by manipulative online bloggers such as chateau heartiste. You just sound super bitter and I can only conclude that it's because you're not satisfied with the type of women that you get.
 

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Hey man, seems like you have some latent narcissist tendencies. I created a detailed post to share my data about dating apps and then you came to my thread, with your very jaded background, to spam the thread and say that all women using bumble are trash and asians women are similar to ladyboys. I politely explain to you that it's due to your lack of experience. I also believe that you may be a person that is too easily influenceable, by manipulative online bloggers such as chateau heartiste. You just sound super bitter and I can only conclude that it's because you're not satisfied with the type of women that you get.
Another sexpat revealing why sexpatting causes mental illness. What planet are you on dude?
 

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Says the man who has lived for one year in the Philippines to have sex with women from poor backgrounds :)
Gaslighting is a favorite tactic used by homosexuals. I do find it interesting. Trying to override reality when all else fails.

I thought the whole point of living in Asia is to have sex with poor women, as you seem to project? Don't tell me you went to Asia to have sex with rich women.... I've heard that men who have a fetish for rich, highly educated women often head straight to Asia. It seems you have superior tastes and I've misjudged you.
 

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Gaslighting is a favorite tactic used by homosexuals. I do find it interesting. Trying to override reality when all else fails.

I thought the whole point of living in Asia is to have sex with poor women, as you seem to project? Don't tell me you went to Asia to have sex with rich women.... I've heard that men who have a fetish for rich, highly educated women often head straight to Asia. It seems you have superior tastes and I've misjudged you.
Your babbling is more and more blurry and evasive. I'm going to make it simpler :

You went to the Philippines 5 years ago to live there as a sexpat. You had sex with mostly girls from poor backgrounds who measured 1m50, while you were a white guy from australia who measured 1m90. Come on mate, you didn't even manage to meet educated pinays while you were there. You did the same mistakes that a lot of sexpats do over there : going for the lowest hanging fruit.
 

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Your babbling is more and more blurry and evasive. I'm going to make it simpler :

You went to the Philippines 5 years ago to live there as a sexpat. You had sex with mostly girls from poor backgrounds who measured 1m50, while you were a white guy from australia who measured 1m90.
People do mistakes and learn from them, just like you should learn from your mistakes now

top women from each country will go mainly for top guys from that country

why they would settle with an average or bellow average western guy ?

because if you would have been an average guy with decent game or above average you would not have went to Asia to get laid . You would have stayed in your country , or at least stay in Western Europe which is a civilized placed
 

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People do mistakes and learn from them, just like you should learn from your mistakes now

top women from each country will go mainly for top guys from that country

why they would settle with an average or bellow average western guy ?

because if you would have been an average guy with decent game or above average you would not have went to Asia to get laid . You would have stayed in your country , or at least stay in Western Europe which is a civilized placed
Correct. These sexpats like to project their failure as a cope. They cope by imagining that we all secretly want to be sexpats.

Gays do exactly the same thing. You criticise homosexuality and they accuse you of being a closet fag.

It’s an extremely boring gaslight. If I wanted to be a sexpat then I’d move to Asia. I’d have no reason to live in Sydney. If I wanted to be gay then I’d be gay. It’s not complicated. I follow my penis.
 
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Correct. These sexpats like to project their failure as a cope. They cope by imagining that we all secretly want to be sexpats.

Gays do exactly the same thing. You criticise homosexuality and they accuse you of being a closet fag.

It’s an extremely boring gaslight. If I wanted to be a sexpat then I’d move to Asia. I’d have no reason to live in Sydney. If I wanted to be gay then I’d be gay. It’s not complicated. I follow my penis.
Tonight I went below my standards. I had sex with a woman who was 1m55. Furthermore I learned that she was a chinese woman from a poor province. My elite insinct had told me that I should not copulate with this girl but I didn't listen to it. I can completely relate to how you feel about SEA now. Having sex with substandard women is disgraceful. Thanksfully for me, it was just a one night slip. Whereas for you, it's a lifelong destiny.

As for your stories about me "gaslighting" you, I fear that you let me no other option but to show proof that you're the liar, not me. You did go to the philippines to indulge into a low form of sexpat lifestyle. I welcome any forum member to run this query on google : "site:nomadphilippines.com spirit maze". This is where our dear proletarian-lover pan87 used to post about his filipino dream life. Just imagine the 1m90 australian pan87, pale as moon, walking with a guetto filipina of 1m50 to Jollibee.
 

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Really doubt that anyones grandfather or ancestors would high five a sex tourists for giving up the fight .
To be fair, I bet most dudes' ancestors would be pusssy begging simps if they were in todays dating market.
 

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To be fair, I bet most dudes' ancestors would be pusssy begging simps if they were in todays dating market.
not really , because you see … they were actually living a tough life and wars were happening every generation

you think that for example your grand grand father who fought in world war 2 would be a simp for a woman ?

he saw most likely parts of his comrades being blown by a grande or something

That sh1t toughens you up
 

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Tonight I went below my standards. I had sex with a woman who was 1m55. Furthermore I learned that she was a chinese woman from a poor province. My elite insinct had told me that I should not copulate with this girl but I didn't listen to it. I can completely relate to how you feel about SEA now. Having sex with substandard women is disgraceful. Thanksfully for me, it was just a one night slip. Whereas for you, it's a lifelong destiny.

As for your stories about me "gaslighting" you, I fear that you let me no other option but to show proof that you're the liar, not me. You did go to the philippines to indulge into a low form of sexpat lifestyle. I welcome any forum member to run this query on google : "site:nomadphilippines.com spirit maze". This is where our dear proletarian-lover pan87 used to post about his filipino dream life. Just imagine the 1m90 australian pan87, pale as moon, walking with a guetto filipina of 1m50 to Jollibee.
I like your website dude. You are nomad Philippines. But did you really have to create a whole website about banging Filipina women? Apparently it’s quite easy. I’m confused? Just turn up, no?

What’s this I hear about you banging high end rich women? I’m totally confused now.
 
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I like your website dude. You are nomad Philippines. But did you really have to create a whole website about banging Filipina women? Apparently it’s quite easy. I’m confused? Just turn up, no?

What’s this I hear about you banging high end rich women? I’m totally confused now.
Your former forum handle 5 years ago was "spirit maze" and you used to post on that sexpat website in the comments section. I only know this website because you sent it to me to see what you were saying :)
 

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not really , because you see … they were actually living a tough life and wars were happening every generation

you think that for example your grand grand father who fought in world war 2 would be a simp for a woman ?

he saw most likely parts of his comrades being blown by a grande or something

That sh1t toughens you up
How would they fight in WW2 if they were alive for today's dating market?
 

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You’re trying to squeeze the last few drops out of Just Be White. It’s only yielding you 6’s and that’s why you’re here.
Lmfao
The killing part is how blind those dudes are when it comes to hypergamy. Unless he look like Swedish Chad(who btw doesnt need to go to SE Asia to get laid) someone posted; 8/10 its strictly security these Asian women check him for. Not genuine desire. Not sexual at least. You're a walking wallet, "mate".

Don't think I'm right? Try your Just Be White in Singapore, Japan or Seoul. See how many dimes you bag there. *wink*

You can't cheat the game, dude.
 

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yeah , but for west is more about game than status

in Eastern Europe you still can flash some status things and get lucky . Especially if you go away from the capital cities
Oh you mean you can still be a walking wallet or spermbank? Sure. May as well be a sexpat by that point though.
But if you're gonna sexpat at least play high stakes.

But yes I completely agree. Surely need more "clown game" as Roosh used to say in Western/Northern Europe.
 
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Do you report women on dating apps? I personally do. If the girl flaked on me in a really bad way like confirming the date a few hours before meeting and cancelling last minute. Or if (much more rarely) she's a little rat trying to get social engagement on google maps or whatever.

I've read on reddit that women do get banned from dating apps as well. Many butthurt men after a first date. Actually the girl that I've met yesterday told me she got banned from tinder. Because she was mass swiping left, out of boredom.

I personally almost never get banned from dating apps when I'm not in a western country. What do happen frequently however are tinder shadow-bans. This app is extremely sensitive to spammy behavior so you must really go out of your way to behave as high-value as possible. It will typically reduce my daily matches by two, and show me lower-value women.
 

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Has anyone used the "Voice prompt" on hinge,you know that you can use on your profile? if so have you noticed more matches or less?
 

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Do you report women on dating apps? I personally do. If the girl flaked on me in a really bad way like confirming the date a few hours before meeting and cancelling last minute. Or if (much more rarely) she's a little rat trying to get social engagement on google maps or whatever.

I've read on reddit that women do get banned from dating apps as well. Many butthurt men after a first date. Actually the girl that I've met yesterday told me she got banned from tinder. Because she was mass swiping left, out of boredom.

I personally almost never get banned from dating apps when I'm not in a western country. What do happen frequently however are tinder shadow-bans. This app is extremely sensitive to spammy behavior so you must really go out of your way to behave as high-value as possible. It will typically reduce my daily matches by two, and show me lower-value women.
Good move. And yeah women report men out of spite, jealousy, “oh, he’s a player” - all the time.

I’ve discovered something fascinating about this. It’s girls that like you/attracted to you who are most likely to report you. To c0ck block you. It’s so clever.

For us Men - You should be getting her number, and then immediately reporting her profile. She only needs 1 or 2 reports to get banned.

And for a woman, it’s just too hard creating a new dating app account now. If you get her banned, you’ve taken her off the online dating market in a very manipulative way - especially if you’ve got her number

You know how I found this out? Women told me. I discovered another trend. Men are forcing women to delete their apps in exchange for continuing the date - women are complaining about how “controlling” it is. But you know what? They are doing it.

I think Men forget that when you tell a woman to do something, her natural instincts is to obey. That’s provided she sees you as a powerful man.
 

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Has anyone used the "Voice prompt" on hinge,you know that you can use on your profile? if so have you noticed more matches or less?
My natural instincts would say “less”.

Here’s the key with your profile. If you look like you’ve spent too much time on it, it’s a turn off. Women don’t want to get the sense that you’re on the app much, or even that you care much.

A high value man dips in and out occasionally, in the mind of a woman. That’s the behaviour she expects.

You only want a few cool pics and a mysterious paragraph written about yourself. And that’s it! Let her discover the rest by herself.

If you have a good voice, a quick phone call is super powerful and she’ll often suddenly be keen to meet and rearrange her plans that very day. Women are super thirsty and make it happen when they like you. It’s because it’s so rare for them to find someone they like.

And it’s funny. You can see they are excited. “Finally, a guy I like a lot.” …..and you’re sitting back chuckling to yourself, thinking to yourself “I don’t even like you. I plan to have sex with you and then never speak to you again.”

They get a sense that you’re not simping. They panic. And they fall in love with you. I’ve seen this pattern about a thousand times now.
 
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