"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plec07

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Hey guys, was just wondering what you'd do if you met a couple girls in HS who are best friends and both the same HB rating. Game em both, or pick one and hope she's the one with a better personality?

I'd probably pick one and then just be playfull with the other ect to show i'm a fun guy and get social proof, but not game her. You know how HS chicks are like, if they're best friend likes you they won't go for you unless you get really tight game.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tyciol

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Going with the 'game' idea, have them play each other on one of the Super Smash Bros games, of if you lack a Nintendo system, Tekken or Mortal Kombat or something. Whoever wins gets you. Or whoever loses. You guys can decide that before the fight.

This is better than real fights because either way both would tear out some hair. With this, the worst you have to deal with is carpal tunnel syndrome. That means they won't try and make you settle for using their hands, which is good!
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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hangout with them both at a public place, find out 'more fun... if they both suck... you got two hot girls for social proof.

but if they don't suck start flirting with the better one... don't keep it a secret from the other one... you're ALLOWED to pick.
 

MissionX

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Haha, don't listen to him....
Pick them both but show you are not interested comepletly, nothing a girl loves more is something she can't have.


Mitch
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Shocker

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Don't take it too seriously, Plec. Game both of them, as you get to know both of them better then decide which.
 
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