"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Plec07

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Hey guys, was just wondering what you'd do if you met a couple girls in HS who are best friends and both the same HB rating. Game em both, or pick one and hope she's the one with a better personality?

I'd probably pick one and then just be playfull with the other ect to show i'm a fun guy and get social proof, but not game her. You know how HS chicks are like, if they're best friend likes you they won't go for you unless you get really tight game.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Going with the 'game' idea, have them play each other on one of the Super Smash Bros games, of if you lack a Nintendo system, Tekken or Mortal Kombat or something. Whoever wins gets you. Or whoever loses. You guys can decide that before the fight.

This is better than real fights because either way both would tear out some hair. With this, the worst you have to deal with is carpal tunnel syndrome. That means they won't try and make you settle for using their hands, which is good!
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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hangout with them both at a public place, find out 'more fun... if they both suck... you got two hot girls for social proof.

but if they don't suck start flirting with the better one... don't keep it a secret from the other one... you're ALLOWED to pick.
 
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MissionX

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Haha, don't listen to him....
Pick them both but show you are not interested comepletly, nothing a girl loves more is something she can't have.


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Shocker

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Don't take it too seriously, Plec. Game both of them, as you get to know both of them better then decide which.
 
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