"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Plec07

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Hey guys, was just wondering what you'd do if you met a couple girls in HS who are best friends and both the same HB rating. Game em both, or pick one and hope she's the one with a better personality?

I'd probably pick one and then just be playfull with the other ect to show i'm a fun guy and get social proof, but not game her. You know how HS chicks are like, if they're best friend likes you they won't go for you unless you get really tight game.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tyciol

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Going with the 'game' idea, have them play each other on one of the Super Smash Bros games, of if you lack a Nintendo system, Tekken or Mortal Kombat or something. Whoever wins gets you. Or whoever loses. You guys can decide that before the fight.

This is better than real fights because either way both would tear out some hair. With this, the worst you have to deal with is carpal tunnel syndrome. That means they won't try and make you settle for using their hands, which is good!
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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hangout with them both at a public place, find out 'more fun... if they both suck... you got two hot girls for social proof.

but if they don't suck start flirting with the better one... don't keep it a secret from the other one... you're ALLOWED to pick.
 

MissionX

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Haha, don't listen to him....
Pick them both but show you are not interested comepletly, nothing a girl loves more is something she can't have.


Mitch
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Shocker

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Don't take it too seriously, Plec. Game both of them, as you get to know both of them better then decide which.
 
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