Ok, so my girlfriend has been bugging me to open up to her a little bit more. Over the past week or two I've complied a little, letting her in on my inner dialog a little bit. Today she was browsing my laptop and come across a collection of text files that I've written when I feel preticually strongly about something. A lot of these are from a time when I was desparate to find a girl and the such and a little bit sappy. She wants to see them, should I let her? I will of course go through them first and remove anything about her or anyone else specifically and get rid of anything that is too weird/sappy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Opening up to girlfriend?
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