"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Opening up to girlfriend?

AB500

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Ok, so my girlfriend has been bugging me to open up to her a little bit more. Over the past week or two I've complied a little, letting her in on my inner dialog a little bit. Today she was browsing my laptop and come across a collection of text files that I've written when I feel preticually strongly about something. A lot of these are from a time when I was desparate to find a girl and the such and a little bit sappy. She wants to see them, should I let her? I will of course go through them first and remove anything about her or anyone else specifically and get rid of anything that is too weird/sappy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AB500 said:
Ok, so my girlfriend has been bugging me to open up to her a little bit more. Over the past week or two I've complied a little, letting her in on my inner dialog a little bit. Today she was browsing my laptop and come across a collection of text files that I've written when I feel preticually strongly about something. A lot of these are from a time when I was desparate to find a girl and the such and a little bit sappy. She wants to see them, should I let her? I will of course go through them first and remove anything about her or anyone else specifically and get rid of anything that is too weird/sappy.
I wouldn't. If she can't respect your privacy, than she's a *****, plain and simple. You tell her what's up, not the other way around, correct?
 

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You need to keep some secrets in a relationship. Its alwasy neccesary to ahve at least few to keep the relationship healthy. As David DeAngelo says in his Deep Inner Game Program "it is important never to show a girl every room in your castle." Meaning that you need to have some secrets to maintain the upperhand and maintain an element of mystery or suprise as well as just plain not being a b*tch.
 

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if she reads those messages she will lose all respect for you
 

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DONT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD LET HER READ THOSE badddd things

cant let her in on your game man DONT ever do that. stay strong, but show a deeper side ie art anything like that. stuff your boys would laugh at you for cause its gay. unless its an addiction to gay porn.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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