Opening up to girlfriend?

[AB500]

Ok, so my girlfriend has been bugging me to open up to her a little bit more. Over the past week or two I've complied a little, letting her in on my inner dialog a little bit. Today she was browsing my laptop and come across a collection of text files that I've written when I feel preticually strongly about something. A lot of these are from a time when I was desparate to find a girl and the such and a little bit sappy. She wants to see them, should I let her? I will of course go through them first and remove anything about her or anyone else specifically and get rid of anything that is too weird/sappy.

 

[Mr_rogers]

Ok, so my girlfriend has been bugging me to open up to her a little bit more. Over the past week or two I've complied a little, letting her in on my inner dialog a little bit. Today she was browsing my laptop and come across a collection of text files that I've written when I feel preticually strongly about something. A lot of these are from a time when I was desparate to find a girl and the such and a little bit sappy. She wants to see them, should I let her? I will of course go through them first and remove anything about her or anyone else specifically and get rid of anything that is too weird/sappy.

I wouldn't. If she can't respect your privacy, than she's a *****, plain and simple. You tell her what's up, not the other way around, correct?

 

[BAMF]

You need to keep some secrets in a relationship. Its alwasy neccesary to ahve at least few to keep the relationship healthy. As David DeAngelo says in his Deep Inner Game Program "it is important never to show a girl every room in your castle." Meaning that you need to have some secrets to maintain the upperhand and maintain an element of mystery or suprise as well as just plain not being a b*tch.

 

[scribblec]

if she reads those messages she will lose all respect for you

 

[dannowillbookem]

DONT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD LET HER READ THOSE badddd things

cant let her in on your game man DONT ever do that. stay strong, but show a deeper side ie art anything like that. stuff your boys would laugh at you for cause its gay. unless its an addiction to gay porn.