"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well it seems like i always become attracted to girls like this without realizing until its too late and i'm already frustrated. and then i feel like theres a problem with what i'm doing and question everything, but then i realized thats not it at all.

ok so logical idea would be to stay away from girls like this, right? despite the logical, whats the secret formula to opening up a immature prude girl despite the fact that shes like 17. how do i get around this and get what i want?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The fact that you're trying to game an immature prude girl is weird.

Why don't you go for the ones who might actually be decent at holding a relationship?
 

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BBX said:
well it seems like i always become attracted to girls like this without realizing until its too late and i'm already frustrated. and then i feel like theres a problem with what i'm doing and question everything, but then i realized thats not it at all.

ok so logical idea would be to stay away from girls like this, right? despite the logical, whats the secret formula to opening up a immature prude girl despite the fact that shes like 17. how do i get around this and get what i want?
Dude, there's no hope for opening those types of girls at that age. Maybe when they're older, but not in their teens. Leave them alone and go for the girls that will give you what you want.
 

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Slip her a roofie..

KIDDING!! :D

She's a girl. Remember that. She's 17. Remember that.
Get her jealous about you and some other chick and she'll be all over you.
 

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Quiksilver said:
The fact that you're trying to game an immature prude girl is weird.

Why don't you go for the ones who might actually be decent at holding a relationship?
ON POINT BRO!!!!! He's doing nothing but fighting an uphill battle.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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