"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BBX

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well it seems like i always become attracted to girls like this without realizing until its too late and i'm already frustrated. and then i feel like theres a problem with what i'm doing and question everything, but then i realized thats not it at all.

ok so logical idea would be to stay away from girls like this, right? despite the logical, whats the secret formula to opening up a immature prude girl despite the fact that shes like 17. how do i get around this and get what i want?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The fact that you're trying to game an immature prude girl is weird.

Why don't you go for the ones who might actually be decent at holding a relationship?
 

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BBX said:
well it seems like i always become attracted to girls like this without realizing until its too late and i'm already frustrated. and then i feel like theres a problem with what i'm doing and question everything, but then i realized thats not it at all.

ok so logical idea would be to stay away from girls like this, right? despite the logical, whats the secret formula to opening up a immature prude girl despite the fact that shes like 17. how do i get around this and get what i want?
Dude, there's no hope for opening those types of girls at that age. Maybe when they're older, but not in their teens. Leave them alone and go for the girls that will give you what you want.
 

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Slip her a roofie..

KIDDING!! :D

She's a girl. Remember that. She's 17. Remember that.
Get her jealous about you and some other chick and she'll be all over you.
 

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Quiksilver said:
The fact that you're trying to game an immature prude girl is weird.

Why don't you go for the ones who might actually be decent at holding a relationship?
ON POINT BRO!!!!! He's doing nothing but fighting an uphill battle.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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