"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BBX

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well it seems like i always become attracted to girls like this without realizing until its too late and i'm already frustrated. and then i feel like theres a problem with what i'm doing and question everything, but then i realized thats not it at all.

ok so logical idea would be to stay away from girls like this, right? despite the logical, whats the secret formula to opening up a immature prude girl despite the fact that shes like 17. how do i get around this and get what i want?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The fact that you're trying to game an immature prude girl is weird.

Why don't you go for the ones who might actually be decent at holding a relationship?
 

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BBX said:
well it seems like i always become attracted to girls like this without realizing until its too late and i'm already frustrated. and then i feel like theres a problem with what i'm doing and question everything, but then i realized thats not it at all.

ok so logical idea would be to stay away from girls like this, right? despite the logical, whats the secret formula to opening up a immature prude girl despite the fact that shes like 17. how do i get around this and get what i want?
Dude, there's no hope for opening those types of girls at that age. Maybe when they're older, but not in their teens. Leave them alone and go for the girls that will give you what you want.
 

thegenerousjew

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Slip her a roofie..

KIDDING!! :D

She's a girl. Remember that. She's 17. Remember that.
Get her jealous about you and some other chick and she'll be all over you.
 

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Quiksilver said:
The fact that you're trying to game an immature prude girl is weird.

Why don't you go for the ones who might actually be decent at holding a relationship?
ON POINT BRO!!!!! He's doing nothing but fighting an uphill battle.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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