"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Opening a date...

dmpitman

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First time poster, btw.

I've managed to develop most of my game from david d's newsletter, this site and others, and the 'naturals' that we all know and envy. I've suffered from oneitis for years, though, going through periods of doing well, yet always eventually falling back into the disease...

However, after reading The Game by Strauss, I've decided to start taking my pua destiny more seriously, partly because I finally met a bro that will sarge with me.

Just trying to give a little background before I ask for advice.



Say I have a date (going dutch don't worry. As if I'd pay for her!). Should I use an opener to open the date, so as to set the general mood for the evening?

Generally, it seems that basically EVERY interaction with women should be treated in the same way, and I'm wondering if others operate this way?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MushroomGod

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Dude just relax and at this point be who you are and get to know her. Still tease her and bust on her but relax and have fun. Also there is no reason why you can't pay for a girl on a date. Even Style said if you don't you can look cheap.
 
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