"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Opening a date...

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dmpitman

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First time poster, btw.

I've managed to develop most of my game from david d's newsletter, this site and others, and the 'naturals' that we all know and envy. I've suffered from oneitis for years, though, going through periods of doing well, yet always eventually falling back into the disease...

However, after reading The Game by Strauss, I've decided to start taking my pua destiny more seriously, partly because I finally met a bro that will sarge with me.

Just trying to give a little background before I ask for advice.



Say I have a date (going dutch don't worry. As if I'd pay for her!). Should I use an opener to open the date, so as to set the general mood for the evening?

Generally, it seems that basically EVERY interaction with women should be treated in the same way, and I'm wondering if others operate this way?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MushroomGod

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Dude just relax and at this point be who you are and get to know her. Still tease her and bust on her but relax and have fun. Also there is no reason why you can't pay for a girl on a date. Even Style said if you don't you can look cheap.
 
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