"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Opening a date...

dmpitman

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First time poster, btw.

I've managed to develop most of my game from david d's newsletter, this site and others, and the 'naturals' that we all know and envy. I've suffered from oneitis for years, though, going through periods of doing well, yet always eventually falling back into the disease...

However, after reading The Game by Strauss, I've decided to start taking my pua destiny more seriously, partly because I finally met a bro that will sarge with me.

Just trying to give a little background before I ask for advice.



Say I have a date (going dutch don't worry. As if I'd pay for her!). Should I use an opener to open the date, so as to set the general mood for the evening?

Generally, it seems that basically EVERY interaction with women should be treated in the same way, and I'm wondering if others operate this way?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MushroomGod

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Dude just relax and at this point be who you are and get to know her. Still tease her and bust on her but relax and have fun. Also there is no reason why you can't pay for a girl on a date. Even Style said if you don't you can look cheap.
 
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