opener....

[Dark Haired Alpha]

This is what happened today at school:

I was leaving school and there was a teacher (a kind of a joker) and a class with a hottie from our school. It was just me on the whole corridor. The teacher made some comment (dunno what it was) and the whole class was looking at me laughing.

To make it clear, I'm not at all insecure about this, but I thought a good opener for tommorow would be:

"Hi, may I ask you a quick question?"
"Sure."
"What was so funny yesterday when <... i would describe the situation here ...>?"

But I'm not sure if it wouldn't sound too awkward or worse, insecure. Thanks for answering my q.

 

[IS|Reinhart]

ok the first advice is do not try too hard. Remember u are not qualifying urself, u are qualifying if she is good enough. And just have fun with her!

As for saying it doesn't matter use correct tone of voice a little playful, try to tease her with body language

 

[Dark Haired Alpha]

thanks reinhart, that was useful, really.

any1 else?

 

[LiveStrong]

okay here is where you are going wrong....dont say "hey may i ask you a question...blah blah..."

Firstly you don't need any fu(king permission to ask somebody a question. Say "hey i missed the joke yesterday...what was it?"

Never say excuse me, may I, do you have time..?, dont do it....just ask.

When asking the question use body language to convey your time restraint. shift your body so you talk over your shoulder...as though you are about to walk away......

-Respect

 

[Dark Haired Alpha]

Originally posted by LiveStrong
okay here is where you are going wrong....dont say "hey may i ask you a question...blah blah..."

Firstly you don't need any fu(king permission to ask somebody a question. Say "hey i missed the joke yesterday...what was it?"

Never say excuse me, may I, do you have time..?, dont do it....just ask.

When asking the question use body language to convey your time restraint. shift your body so you talk over your shoulder...as though you are about to walk away......

-Respect

Thank you.

Just for information, I put together a cover to ask ... I will probably say that I bet with my friend what it was to not sound like a little boy who was thinking about this incident all night long.

I'll post a report tommorow to this thread.