"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Likki

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Hey, y'all. Well, last week was my first week of school and things seemed to be so crazy now that its my last year. And during lunch period, I spotted a cute Asian girl who I was interested in meeting. So, on the last day of the week, I decided to sit with her at her table. I sparked up a conversation with her, asking her if she was new (she obviously was), and general things teens ask new acquaintances. (What do you do for fun, what movies you like, music etc. etc.)

Anyway, as we're talking I actually learned that she is a foreign exchange student from Korea. BIG shocker. Apparently, she likes it here in the US and would stay if it were up to her, but it's basically up to her 'program' to decide whether she stays for another year, or goes back to Korea when the school year has finished.

Another thing I discovered, was that she is practically 3 years younger than me. I'll be 18 this month, and she's currently 15 years old. Currently we're in the acquaintance phase, and I would love to become her friend, and *hopefully* something more in the future. Do you think it is wise to continue to pursue this girl? :confused: Or does anyone have any thoughts regarding my situation? Thanks a lot. :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If it's what you want, then go for it.

You probably will be moving away pretty soon for college anyways.
 

jonny football hero

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Imo, it'll only cause problems when she goes back to Korea, plus isn't it illegal to pork people under 16 over there?
 

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Heh.

See, one major advantage I have is that I can honestly tell you I'm not looking for this girl simply for sex. I never really had that mindset. I'm just looking for a faithful companion at the moment. You know, someone I can chill with. So I guess I'll try it out, and we'll see if she accepts me as more as a friend in the future. Thanks for responding, guys. :p
 

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she likes it here in the US and would stay if it were up to her, but it's basically up to her 'program' to decide whether she stays for another year, or goes back to Korea
I think if you was to sleep with her the "program " would not like that to much ;)

I'll tell you the exact samething that I told my friend who is in the same situation (he's 18, shes 15)

Me: N*GGA don't do that, that's 5 to 10!

But with all kiddin aside.......BE CAREFUL work on being her friend and getting to know her more, then make the right decision.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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