"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Likki

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Hey, y'all. Well, last week was my first week of school and things seemed to be so crazy now that its my last year. And during lunch period, I spotted a cute Asian girl who I was interested in meeting. So, on the last day of the week, I decided to sit with her at her table. I sparked up a conversation with her, asking her if she was new (she obviously was), and general things teens ask new acquaintances. (What do you do for fun, what movies you like, music etc. etc.)

Anyway, as we're talking I actually learned that she is a foreign exchange student from Korea. BIG shocker. Apparently, she likes it here in the US and would stay if it were up to her, but it's basically up to her 'program' to decide whether she stays for another year, or goes back to Korea when the school year has finished.

Another thing I discovered, was that she is practically 3 years younger than me. I'll be 18 this month, and she's currently 15 years old. Currently we're in the acquaintance phase, and I would love to become her friend, and *hopefully* something more in the future. Do you think it is wise to continue to pursue this girl? :confused: Or does anyone have any thoughts regarding my situation? Thanks a lot. :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NEWBIE101

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If it's what you want, then go for it.

You probably will be moving away pretty soon for college anyways.
 

jonny football hero

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Imo, it'll only cause problems when she goes back to Korea, plus isn't it illegal to pork people under 16 over there?
 

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Heh.

See, one major advantage I have is that I can honestly tell you I'm not looking for this girl simply for sex. I never really had that mindset. I'm just looking for a faithful companion at the moment. You know, someone I can chill with. So I guess I'll try it out, and we'll see if she accepts me as more as a friend in the future. Thanks for responding, guys. :p
 

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she likes it here in the US and would stay if it were up to her, but it's basically up to her 'program' to decide whether she stays for another year, or goes back to Korea
I think if you was to sleep with her the "program " would not like that to much ;)

I'll tell you the exact samething that I told my friend who is in the same situation (he's 18, shes 15)

Me: N*GGA don't do that, that's 5 to 10!

But with all kiddin aside.......BE CAREFUL work on being her friend and getting to know her more, then make the right decision.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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