"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
open-ended questions
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Seriously, she is a person, just like you, there is no special questions to ask her. If you really need help, start with something like, "Hey, how was your day?" Or, "What do you like to do in your free time?"
Dongfu
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actually, these are closed ended. She can simply say, "good thanks," and "nothing in particular."slitherjef said:
open questions are ones like. "how do you feel about hillary being the first woman president?"
basically anything that will stir her feelings and lure her into the conversation.
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Did not think of it that way. Thanks for the correctionDongfu said:
