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L0bsang

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Gentlemen!

trying to think of some good open ended questions to keep from going quiet, any ideas?

do you think a woman that is horrible at kissing is worth pursuing? its boring making out with her.

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Lob
 

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Open ended questions? Its not that hard. That first question you asked, was an open ended question, did you have trouble asking that one?

Seriously, she is a person, just like you, there is no special questions to ask her. If you really need help, start with something like, "Hey, how was your day?" Or, "What do you like to do in your free time?"
 

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slitherjef said:
Open ended questions? Its not that hard. That first question you asked, was an open ended question, did you have trouble asking that one?

Seriously, she is a person, just like you, there is no special questions to ask her. If you really need help, start with something like, "Hey, how was your day?" Or, "What do you like to do in your free time?"
actually, these are closed ended. She can simply say, "good thanks," and "nothing in particular."

open questions are ones like. "how do you feel about hillary being the first woman president?"


basically anything that will stir her feelings and lure her into the conversation.
 

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Dongfu said:
actually, these are closed ended. She can simply say, "good thanks," and "nothing in particular."

open questions are ones like. "how do you feel about hillary being the first woman president?"


basically anything that will stir her feelings and lure her into the conversation.
Did not think of it that way. Thanks for the correction :eek:
 
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