The Asian Lover
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Only go for the women that want you
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
This is basic...
In the Mack Community
This is called being choose, it makes the game a lot easier from all angles
Good ****!!
Peace
In the Mack Community
This is called being choose, it makes the game a lot easier from all angles
Good ****!!
Peace
The Asian Lover
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Oh so you're a mack?Solomon said:
HAHAHAHAHA!
Gangster Of Love
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Off course he's a mack! everyone knows that.The Asian Lover said:
Hey, send me the contact info on that hottie you interviewed, she would love my brown meat, as she states!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
zekko
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Okay, in the video the guy says the following:
1) If a woman looks at you, she is interested.
2) If a woman never looks at you, then you're ugly or a fat tub of lard.
3) Most men are genetically average so they don't have to worry about #2.
Now if most of us are average, then why do girls look at us? Because according to this guy, looking at us means she's interested. That is clearly not necessarily so, she may just be checking you out to see if she might be interested, or she may be trying to boost her own self esteem by seeing if she can get a reaction out of you.
But seriously, if we're mostly all average, why is she bothering to look? What distinguishes one guy from the other (we're nearly all average, after all). I'm guessing this guy would say it's usually some sort of sh't test to see if you have the nerve to approach, that way she weeds out the wimps. That could be the case, but it could be one of the other things too.
1) If a woman looks at you, she is interested.
2) If a woman never looks at you, then you're ugly or a fat tub of lard.
3) Most men are genetically average so they don't have to worry about #2.
Now if most of us are average, then why do girls look at us? Because according to this guy, looking at us means she's interested. That is clearly not necessarily so, she may just be checking you out to see if she might be interested, or she may be trying to boost her own self esteem by seeing if she can get a reaction out of you.
But seriously, if we're mostly all average, why is she bothering to look? What distinguishes one guy from the other (we're nearly all average, after all). I'm guessing this guy would say it's usually some sort of sh't test to see if you have the nerve to approach, that way she weeds out the wimps. That could be the case, but it could be one of the other things too.
DJ Miquelo
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I like your videos in general and i think they raise alot of valuable points for ppl that are still learning this kinda thing BUT! the one thing i might advise is.....
the wind in the videos is really annoying haha and its sometimes hard to hear you!! go to less windy places!!! (also that said, the backgrounds of your videos are cool)
the wind in the videos is really annoying haha and its sometimes hard to hear you!! go to less windy places!!! (also that said, the backgrounds of your videos are cool)
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Gangster of Love: She loves the latin brown meat!
zekko: If she's hot, she won't look at you if you're average. That's why you have to work on yourself and become exceptional. I worked on my physique and have my own business so I made myself stand out.
DJ Miquelo: I appreciate the support! One of these days I'm going to invest in quality video equipment...
zekko: If she's hot, she won't look at you if you're average. That's why you have to work on yourself and become exceptional. I worked on my physique and have my own business so I made myself stand out.
DJ Miquelo: I appreciate the support! One of these days I'm going to invest in quality video equipment...
HeyPachuco!
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Lol, what
Atleast 2-3seconds eye contact?
Atleast 2-3seconds eye contact?
Gangster Of Love
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Asian Lover,
I second the opionion on the cool backgrounds of the videos. Perhaps a lapel mic or regular mic would improve the quality and sound.
What kind of camera do you have? Is that a cannon video camera?
I second the opionion on the cool backgrounds of the videos. Perhaps a lapel mic or regular mic would improve the quality and sound.
What kind of camera do you have? Is that a cannon video camera?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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It's a flip camcorder.Gangster Of Love said: