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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Only go for the women that want you
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
This is basic...
In the Mack Community
This is called being choose, it makes the game a lot easier from all angles
Good ****!!
Peace
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This is called being choose, it makes the game a lot easier from all angles
Good ****!!
Peace
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Oh so you're a mack?Solomon said:
HAHAHAHAHA!
Gangster Of Love
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Off course he's a mack! everyone knows that.The Asian Lover said:
Hey, send me the contact info on that hottie you interviewed, she would love my brown meat, as she states!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
zekko
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Okay, in the video the guy says the following:
1) If a woman looks at you, she is interested.
2) If a woman never looks at you, then you're ugly or a fat tub of lard.
3) Most men are genetically average so they don't have to worry about #2.
Now if most of us are average, then why do girls look at us? Because according to this guy, looking at us means she's interested. That is clearly not necessarily so, she may just be checking you out to see if she might be interested, or she may be trying to boost her own self esteem by seeing if she can get a reaction out of you.
But seriously, if we're mostly all average, why is she bothering to look? What distinguishes one guy from the other (we're nearly all average, after all). I'm guessing this guy would say it's usually some sort of sh't test to see if you have the nerve to approach, that way she weeds out the wimps. That could be the case, but it could be one of the other things too.
1) If a woman looks at you, she is interested.
2) If a woman never looks at you, then you're ugly or a fat tub of lard.
3) Most men are genetically average so they don't have to worry about #2.
Now if most of us are average, then why do girls look at us? Because according to this guy, looking at us means she's interested. That is clearly not necessarily so, she may just be checking you out to see if she might be interested, or she may be trying to boost her own self esteem by seeing if she can get a reaction out of you.
But seriously, if we're mostly all average, why is she bothering to look? What distinguishes one guy from the other (we're nearly all average, after all). I'm guessing this guy would say it's usually some sort of sh't test to see if you have the nerve to approach, that way she weeds out the wimps. That could be the case, but it could be one of the other things too.
DJ Miquelo
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I like your videos in general and i think they raise alot of valuable points for ppl that are still learning this kinda thing BUT! the one thing i might advise is.....
the wind in the videos is really annoying haha and its sometimes hard to hear you!! go to less windy places!!! (also that said, the backgrounds of your videos are cool)
the wind in the videos is really annoying haha and its sometimes hard to hear you!! go to less windy places!!! (also that said, the backgrounds of your videos are cool)
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Gangster of Love: She loves the latin brown meat!
zekko: If she's hot, she won't look at you if you're average. That's why you have to work on yourself and become exceptional. I worked on my physique and have my own business so I made myself stand out.
DJ Miquelo: I appreciate the support! One of these days I'm going to invest in quality video equipment...
zekko: If she's hot, she won't look at you if you're average. That's why you have to work on yourself and become exceptional. I worked on my physique and have my own business so I made myself stand out.
DJ Miquelo: I appreciate the support! One of these days I'm going to invest in quality video equipment...
HeyPachuco!
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Lol, what
Atleast 2-3seconds eye contact?
Atleast 2-3seconds eye contact?
Gangster Of Love
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Asian Lover,
I second the opionion on the cool backgrounds of the videos. Perhaps a lapel mic or regular mic would improve the quality and sound.
What kind of camera do you have? Is that a cannon video camera?
I second the opionion on the cool backgrounds of the videos. Perhaps a lapel mic or regular mic would improve the quality and sound.
What kind of camera do you have? Is that a cannon video camera?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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It's a flip camcorder.Gangster Of Love said: