"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Only go for the women that want you

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is basic...

In the Mack Community

This is called being choose, it makes the game a lot easier from all angles

Good ****!!

Peace
 

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The Asian Lover said:
Oh so you're a mack?

HAHAHAHAHA!
Off course he's a mack! everyone knows that.

Hey, send me the contact info on that hottie you interviewed, she would love my brown meat, as she states!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay, in the video the guy says the following:
1) If a woman looks at you, she is interested.
2) If a woman never looks at you, then you're ugly or a fat tub of lard.
3) Most men are genetically average so they don't have to worry about #2.

Now if most of us are average, then why do girls look at us? Because according to this guy, looking at us means she's interested. That is clearly not necessarily so, she may just be checking you out to see if she might be interested, or she may be trying to boost her own self esteem by seeing if she can get a reaction out of you.

But seriously, if we're mostly all average, why is she bothering to look? What distinguishes one guy from the other (we're nearly all average, after all). I'm guessing this guy would say it's usually some sort of sh't test to see if you have the nerve to approach, that way she weeds out the wimps. That could be the case, but it could be one of the other things too.
 

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I like your videos in general and i think they raise alot of valuable points for ppl that are still learning this kinda thing BUT! the one thing i might advise is.....

the wind in the videos is really annoying haha and its sometimes hard to hear you!! go to less windy places!!! (also that said, the backgrounds of your videos are cool)
 
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Gangster of Love: She loves the latin brown meat!

zekko: If she's hot, she won't look at you if you're average. That's why you have to work on yourself and become exceptional. I worked on my physique and have my own business so I made myself stand out.

DJ Miquelo: I appreciate the support! One of these days I'm going to invest in quality video equipment...
 

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Asian Lover,

I second the opionion on the cool backgrounds of the videos. Perhaps a lapel mic or regular mic would improve the quality and sound.

What kind of camera do you have? Is that a cannon video camera?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gangster Of Love said:
Asian Lover,

I second the opionion on the cool backgrounds of the videos. Perhaps a lapel mic or regular mic would improve the quality and sound.

What kind of camera do you have? Is that a cannon video camera?
It's a flip camcorder.
 

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Solomon said:
This is basic...

In the Mack Community

This is called being choose, it makes the game a lot easier from all angles

Good ****!!

Peace
Wow that sounds familiar. Finally coming around. Good for you.
 
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