"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LuckyStrike88

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I recently heard something that got to me.
Some guy acquired some knowledge, some knowledge that he at that point believed would be very useful. But choose to withhold it until it would have brought him everything he wanted, and he waited, until he was sure about it's quality and shared it from a happy place. And i believe everyone should do that, because there are too many mother****ers around here. Frustrated chumps talking big while they aren't even happy and successful themselves and you can sense the frustration in every word they write.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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loco

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Nobody on here is asking for advice in advance to use it 3 months later lol,if it makes sense and you use it then you do so at your own risk,the advice given here is merely that,advice not a fact.
 

LuckyStrike88

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loco said:
Nobody on here is asking for advice in advance to use it 3 months later lol,if it makes sense and you use it then you do so at your own risk,the advice given here is merely that,advice not a fact.
You do not get the point loco.
 

loco

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I guess you didn't understand what I meant so I will try to rephrase,good,successful and proven knowledge even coming from a happy place is not a "one size fits all" what may work for someone may not for another,therefore the advice given here even coming from a good or bad place should be taken with a grain of salt.
 

badboyjmm

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I understand LuckyStrike. I think the issues is that the advice is often presented as an absolute truth rather than a suggestion that has worked in the past. That's why you have to take everything with a grain of salt.

Also, I might not be the guy with the most success but I still understand the nature of woman and their behavior so I feel I can give advice, but then again, I don't consider things about woman to be complete truths (aka black or white)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yewki

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I find it interesting when someone is struggling to do the basics, but then finally when something goes right (i.e. getting laid) he reports back and suddenly he's made it. He's now a master DJ and is making threads to share his great wisdom and tell his tale. This usually doesn't last long. He'll mysteriously disappear, realizing he didn't actually accomplish much.... usually to return again later in shambles and with new issues.
 

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Yewki said:
I find it interesting when someone is struggling to do the basics, but then finally when something goes right (i.e. getting laid) he reports back and suddenly he's made it. He's now a master DJ and is making threads to share his great wisdom and tell his tale. This usually doesn't last long. He'll mysteriously disappear, realizing he didn't actually accomplish much.... usually to return again later in shambles and with new issues.
Well very true, a bit like when the gym get full of people in January but 75% are gone by March.

Struggling with basics and finally scoring feels awesome but people like that need to remember that it's not the end of this DJ lifestyle. We need to keep improving, keep spinning plates, keep going for more money so that we can be happy.
 
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