"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LuckyStrike88

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I recently heard something that got to me.
Some guy acquired some knowledge, some knowledge that he at that point believed would be very useful. But choose to withhold it until it would have brought him everything he wanted, and he waited, until he was sure about it's quality and shared it from a happy place. And i believe everyone should do that, because there are too many mother****ers around here. Frustrated chumps talking big while they aren't even happy and successful themselves and you can sense the frustration in every word they write.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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loco

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Nobody on here is asking for advice in advance to use it 3 months later lol,if it makes sense and you use it then you do so at your own risk,the advice given here is merely that,advice not a fact.
 

LuckyStrike88

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loco said:
Nobody on here is asking for advice in advance to use it 3 months later lol,if it makes sense and you use it then you do so at your own risk,the advice given here is merely that,advice not a fact.
You do not get the point loco.
 

loco

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I guess you didn't understand what I meant so I will try to rephrase,good,successful and proven knowledge even coming from a happy place is not a "one size fits all" what may work for someone may not for another,therefore the advice given here even coming from a good or bad place should be taken with a grain of salt.
 

badboyjmm

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I understand LuckyStrike. I think the issues is that the advice is often presented as an absolute truth rather than a suggestion that has worked in the past. That's why you have to take everything with a grain of salt.

Also, I might not be the guy with the most success but I still understand the nature of woman and their behavior so I feel I can give advice, but then again, I don't consider things about woman to be complete truths (aka black or white)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yewki

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I find it interesting when someone is struggling to do the basics, but then finally when something goes right (i.e. getting laid) he reports back and suddenly he's made it. He's now a master DJ and is making threads to share his great wisdom and tell his tale. This usually doesn't last long. He'll mysteriously disappear, realizing he didn't actually accomplish much.... usually to return again later in shambles and with new issues.
 

badboyjmm

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Yewki said:
I find it interesting when someone is struggling to do the basics, but then finally when something goes right (i.e. getting laid) he reports back and suddenly he's made it. He's now a master DJ and is making threads to share his great wisdom and tell his tale. This usually doesn't last long. He'll mysteriously disappear, realizing he didn't actually accomplish much.... usually to return again later in shambles and with new issues.
Well very true, a bit like when the gym get full of people in January but 75% are gone by March.

Struggling with basics and finally scoring feels awesome but people like that need to remember that it's not the end of this DJ lifestyle. We need to keep improving, keep spinning plates, keep going for more money so that we can be happy.
 
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